im having one when weve had baby number 2 (if we get that lucky )
i had an emergency c section with bella so the muscles are all to pot as well as the horrible flap of skin :0(
I had an emergency C-section too and I'm not numb or sore. no idea what the scar looks like though - can't see it for the floppy tummy!! Various friends told me to expect it to feel numb for about 6 months after the Caesar but it didn't. Have you guys asked your docs about it?