Thanks guys - was really really good so am relieved it paid off.
Booked the date and registrar today so its officially next November. Little further away than I wanted but wanted a Saturday and way cheaper than summer.
Though now reconsidering dress as not sure the whole tea party thing will work as well in November. Tried on some more the other day and found another one - will probably change my mind several times in the next year though!
woop you are the week after me xx yes i think ive got my dress but liable to change, plus the cost of bridesmaid dresses is shocking! so i too wil probably change my mind loads. I fancy orange x