Sounds like a contradiction.......... If your on a diet you arent in control until you are not on a diet........ if you know what I mean. I am not on a diet, I feel fully in control of what I eat, I choose foods now on the basis of what nutrients and minerals I get from food, I never would ever eat fish, but now I eat salmon four times a week because it has become attractive to me in terms of the benefits eating it would bring to my body also i have grown to have an intense love and apprieciation for broccoli, and crave that on a daily basis. Seems so strange, the more I read about foods the more I become interested in them, I often crave a food without even knowing what it tastes like because of reading about it. As I am losing weight I find I am trying to eat foods that have nutrients that are good for my skin, hair and body. I don't think i could ever overeat again, I eat a piece of 85% dark chocolate a day as it does have beneficial nutrients, eventually when I have lostthe weight I will drink red wine a couple of times a week too, becaus eof the benefits. I feel healthy and added to the walkign i am doing I am going to start swimming next week, because of the toning and the gentle workout on my joints.