Thanks for all your replies everyone,
Redhead, no, all the ex and his girlfriend seem to be trying to do is deny it can be anything to do with them, and cover thier own arses... But the EHO will soon find out the source of the bug. They are just so wrapped up in thier own sh*tty little world, and getting through to them is impossible, they just take everything I say personally, instead of thinking of my kids best interests... I cant believe I was married to the bloke, urgh! (saying that, it was never a cr*p hole when I lived there!) lol