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Linz i feel for you babe. Its horrible i remember Oliver doing it when he 1st started. It seemed to go on forever then just as he became ok with it, it was time for school hols and it started again the next term. I found that not telling him and not putting him in uniform helped. It was just another morning (id even put his bag in the car the night before). Then he would cry when we pulled up but if i showed him the other children through the window he wanted to join them. It soon stopped. Some kids do play you. Louis, olivers friend has been going for nearly 2yrs (hes a bit older) and he still has days where he crys before going in. Dont let it get you down hun, you are not hurting her in any way and its better this happens now and now at primary school. Big hugs. xxxx
 
Oh Linz, perhaps try getting her to help make her lunch or pack her bag for the next day? That way she might look forward to going and show her friends the lunch she made. Or perhaps even making some Art to show her teacher or friends?

There is always bribes, like stopping for a hot choc on the way to school to distract her?

Enjoy your swim.

Bren
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Thats a good idea Bren. Figan (olivers ket worker at school) gets him to make stuff and try them. He tried lots of different fruits, wraps with ham and advocado (he never eats ham), they chose what to put in them and pasta (he didnt like it) oh and home made ice cream and angel delights. Worth giving it a go. What about making a pizza with her to take in? Or some cup cakes for everyone.
 
Well guys... all was good this morning! She was fabulous... no tears. no fuss & didn't even give me a second look when I left! I asked her if she'd like something for being such a brave girl & she said a 'hello kitty' dress, so instead of a swim I went into town & got her a dress which I took with me for pick up!! She was SO excited! Picked up some other bits too so that next time she goes in without tears I can have a swim & take her in something!!

So that was a good part of my day.. the bad part is my car which was meant to be ready isn't even close to being ready (we wouldn't have known this if we'd not called them!!) The bolts have sheared as they tried to take the part off & are having to drill it out..... I really didn't want to know anything else after that!! I just hope we have it back for the weekend!!

Have you all had good days? xx
 
My days are always good Linz. :)
 
Oh Linz, glad she went in well. I hope they arent charging you for the bolts they arent strong enough to remove!
 
Its hard for them when they are so tiny and they dont understand it properly. At least you know she is playing you and there isnt a real problem. Bless her. Lots of praise and cuddles tonight.
 
Im there too. My wardrobe is totally black. I'll be your barbie doll to dress up. Im useless at dressing myself. Need a girlie to tell me what look good and whats a no no
 
Its about 45mins from TW but worth it. In comparison i think TW is rubbish. Mind you bromley is ok too
 
Morning peeps!

Just completed 49 mins on the wii this morning, takes me to a total of 15hr 44 mins worth of exercise this month... just over 30 mins a day which isn't too sad, shame it doesn't reflect in my weight loss for this month as its the same as last months... never mind I'm sure its helping change the shape of my body!

Beautiful sunshine here today, fingers crossed for getting my car back & am determined to make my Ooopsies today!

Off for a mental morning at music class then hopefully a picnic at the park if the weather holds!

Jim.. if I don't catch you later have a fabulous time at Twickers tomorrow, Vicky have a fab long weekend away!! xxx
 
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