1st re-feed weigh in

[fifi70]

Thanks hun, should I still go for the spray-tan, n go an strut my stuff, cheer myself up.

 

[TracyJ]

Fi honey you look bloody great!!! Ignore them, personally i think its such a dramatic loss in such a short space of time that its a shock for people to see thats why they think we look ill! I had the same hun, they will adjust...you look great hun xxx

 

[Sara4]

Mothers and M-I-Ls are NEVER happy. You just have to accept that in life. Stuff them. Be happy with your new image - you have worked so hard to get it! I think you look fab!

 

[fifi70]

Thanks Tracy, it makes me feel really sad, some people just don't care how they hurt your feelings, I would never dream of doing that to someone. If I didn't have somat nice to say then I'd keep my mouth shut. Just the person I am I suppose. A bit of support off my mum would be nice though, no chance of it, sad to say.
So glad I can talk to you guys on here.:wave_cry:

 

[fifi70]

Thanks Sara, I understand totally, but the comments really cheesed me off, I feel good about myself and my kids love me so I will concentrate on that, and stuff the negative gits. he he

 

[TracyJ]

Definitely hun thats what we are here for! My bro has called me skinny and fat in the last 2 days! is that possible?! Strange as im the same as you would never want to offend people i would keep my mouth shut xx

 

[redhed]

thats amazing they say you cant see your own acheivments as well as others can but everyones sayin you look fab and would we all lie i think not, so believe it!!!!!!!!!!! xx

 

[redhed]

Thanks everyone, the time to lose this weight has been 4 months, it's flown by, I felt daunted when I first started on my journey to slimness, but taking it week by week and coming on this site every day has helped me cope without a doubt.

I'm still getting negative comments however from people close to me, which is upsetting; I snapped at my mum today, she said I looked bloody awful and ill, too thin! I replied 'christ almighty, I get comments when I'm fat, and now I'm thinner I'm gettin the same remarks, can't please you can I.' I've never answered her back like that, but its totm and it really pi$*ed me off, and out it slipped; needless to say it put a downer on my day. Then when I went to my friends house her mum said somat similar so I got another slap in the chops. this really tested my willpower, and i didn't succumb to comfort food. I really felt like crying but I wont let that happen cos I'm proud of my achievement and stuff the lot of them.

Does anyone else think I look ill on my picture??? or are they just talking crap. Please be honest, cos I might just have to go and get a spray-tan he he.
Sorry for the rant, just had to get it off my chest. :sigh:

bet they jelous:jelous::jelous::jelous: srew them youve got us

 

[fifi70]

bet they jelous:jelous::jelous::jelous: srew them youve got us

Thanks babe, you hit the nail on the head. the green eyed monster keeps poppin out in people.

 

[fattothin]

one eyed moster keeps popping out here lol xx

 

[Shazpaz]

You look fab hun....I think its just a mum thing. Its what they all seem to say when people lose a lot of weight....You look great! Go and get that spray tan...just make sure you don't go orange as then they may have something to say LOL.

 

[Bindi]

Fifi70
Well done and congrats on your amazing loss, you look fab! You are an inspiration..

 

[fifi70]

one eyed moster keeps popping out here lol xx

Trust you!!, made me giggle though hehe

 

[fifi70]

Thanks everyone, a bit of tlc goes a long way, fank u xx

 

[nictastic]

Thanks hun, should I still go for the spray-tan, n go an strut my stuff, cheer myself up.

you should definately still go for a spray tan and stutt it baby wooo hoooo
xxxx

 

[ladylipo]

Fi honestly you look great!!!
Mabye they dont know how to react to the new slim you it all happened so quick screw them anyway GIRL POWER oh and Garry lol!!

Iv a mate and in my first couple of wks of LT he was telling me how great i looked and now the little S*** is messing with my head sayin he dosent think iv lost anything that i still look the same! Honestly now when i look in the mirror i still see the old me even tho iv lost just over 2 stone!
WTF lik its such a mind game at times

 

[jennyc]

Fi honestly you look great!!!
Mabye they dont know how to react to the new slim you it all happened so quick screw them anyway GIRL POWER oh and Garry lol!!

Iv a mate and in my first couple of wks of LT he was telling me how great i looked and now the little S*** is messing with my head sayin he dosent think iv lost anything that i still look the same! Honestly now when i look in the mirror i still see the old me even tho iv lost just over 2 stone!
WTF lik its such a mind game at times

u poor thing he doesnt sound like a very nice mate hon.although a few of my male mates would prob say the same,MEN lol

 

[fattothin]

Huh! women...lolx

 

[ladylipo]

Iv stopped seeing him as much as i used to now screw him hes gonna have to get used to the new me or sod off!!!

Needless to say hes very over weight himself he weighs around 20 stone and i reckon hes very paranoid about the way he looks thats why he feels the need to slag me off

 

[jennyc]

Huh! women...lolx

awh always up for gary arent ya ? lol