Dear Princess Jader,
I want to say to you some of the things I wish I had known/done when I was your age. I know how dull that sounds and I know maybe it won't make sense to you but do you mind if I say it anyway?
- Being young has it's own beauty, you see your own faults but when you are older you will see that you were beautiful because you were young. Tr to enjoy being young and healthy.
- Go slowly to weightloss, 1lb a week or less is good. It's enough. Dont agonise over an odd biscuit, also enjoy yourself. It's what you eat every day that influences your weight.
- Don't waste too much time thinking about food, diets etc. Decide to eat a bit less for a few years and it will just fall off you. Get a bike, go for a bike ride, or find an activity that you enjoy and do it because you enjoy it not for the energy it uses. Take a neighbourhood do0g for a daily walk!
- Do it gently but don't put it off either. Now your skin will spring back and you won't have back or knee problems etc.
- If you have a cake in a cake shop with friends, sit and look at it and enjoy it. Then stop.
- If you are so inclined, make yourself a little place, a corner or place where you go and sit quietly whenever you get into that unstoppable run to the fridge mode. Sit and wait for 10 mins and the urge will probably have passed.
I know this sounds like an old fart going on - and it probably is just that! But I wish I had had the strength to have done this when i was 20 and I wouldn't now be still wrestling with this at 52. I've wasted a lot of time thinking about this stupid subject!
I wish you so much luck, but you don't need it - just do it as they say!
xx