No problem Mally, I'm happy to help as much as I can
I will try to answer your questions as best I can and there is also a really great slim and save forum on here for anything I leave out!
S&s is another vlcd so it is virtually the same, it has slightly fewer calories per pack than exante though with a vlcd once you go below 800 calories the weightloss is the same. As with exante it is cheaper if you buy a months supply (and a months supply is the same price as exante) but when you do you can choose every item that goes in the months supply so you are only buying what you like
It does vary in a few small ways, a woman can either have three packs a day and add 100g of lean protein ( such as chicken breast, eggs etc) or four packs, with either option you can have a small allowance of milk and vegetables. Personally I think it's great to have the choice so if you want to remove all food you can but the option is there to have the veg/milk
There is more choice with the products, several flavour shakes, bars and meals (such as chilli, spaghetti bolognaise, macaroni cheese) and though I don't like them all I like a lot of them!
As I said I'm not trying to slate exante at all, I love their shakes and I love the fact that they are the only company not to use aspartame, I just think variety is so important to being able to do this long term, and it makes me so sad to think of you struggling with the products so much
Edited to add..... I meant to say that the slim and save forum has a great thread with photos of the products and reviews of them, and that yes the amount of weight loss will be the same (averaging at a stone a month for most people)