You're welcome - I meant it every word of it.
My mind is in the right place but I have had a few setbacks. Since I started I have had an anniversary, my friend's boozy 50th birthday party away, two corporate events that I was expected to attend and really long hours where I couldn't be bothered cooking when I got home. My weight loss has not been as good as it could have been as a consequence. I am still motivated and just get annoyed when something that is slightly out of my control (eg corporate events) knock me out of kilter.
To me, perseverance is the key and my mindset is now "this is how I need to eat, 80-90% of the time, for life". I have proven to myself that despite having to wander off track, I will not gain weight as long as I get back to the new "normal". I see that as a good lesson to learn though.
It is very motivational to see that a few people I am following (yourself included) are losing weight on the plan too.