Snakes and ladders
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Blondee said:Well I had a girls night out last night & showed them some of my holiday snaps and I lost a bit of weight during the holiday due to sweating & not eating big meals I suppose but they all said I looked way too skinny?! :-/ Bit confused because I don't think I do...?? I'm still aiming to lose another half a stone for my next hols though... I'm still now a curvy size 12/14 so I'm healthy but losing a bit more won't hurt... I'm not doing it unhealthily by not eating so am I doing the right thing?? Xxx
Hm, I am 5ft 10 and a 10-12. I don't look too skinny and no-one has said I do. I have good muscular tone and feel healthy.
I think friends can be one's worst enemy sometimes. Can you think of other reasons why they might have said that? It sounds like you're not too skinny really, so could it be that they're jealous? Was ist just their way of complimenting you? Do they worry that it's too much effort for you to diet? Do they want you to stop dieting so you can indulge together?
I guess my point is that it's your body and you can be whatever size you want, if you're healthy about it, and it seems that you are. Don't let others tell you what to be xxx