Ooh I agree with you about the reet pain!
Do you really think we will know when we have lost enough?? I'm going through a "doubting myself" phase but it might be because I am almost there ...
Absolutely you will know!
When I first started I was adamant I wanted to get my BMI below 25 to be "healthy". But as time has moved on (I've been at this a
long time) I've realised a few things.
1) At 56, if I get my BMI to 25 I will look scrawny - not attractive in an old bird IMHO. I'm a "big" lass - and that's official - my doctor told me so :8855: I have an extremly large frame so even though my BMI will be at 26 when I get to target I know that's right for me.
2) I have lots of spare skin now that no amount of exercise will get rid of and I don't want to go down the surgery route and I don't want it to get any worse.
3) I now see a slim person staring back at me in the mirror and I know I look ok. Fine - I'm not skinny or even thin. But a curvy size 14 top and 16 bum that I am finally happy with. Good childbearing hips that no amount od dieting will let me get into a size 14 jeans. Although I have to put 3 or 4" darts into the waists of size 16.
You will know chica - you will definitely know. So stop doubting yourself. As you say "nearly there" does this to a lot of people. I have friends on here who reached target at a nice healthy BMI and have gone on to lose another 7 lbs. The thrill of the chase and all that. But they knew that they needed to carry on too. Equally I have other friends who got to target and knew they were already right. And another who lost another 7 lbs and then decided she was now too thin so is now trying to put it back on!!
Hugs :hug99: to everyone who is nearly there and having a bit of a self doubt. Just get there and celebrate (but not with food!!!!
) and then reflect on whether you are happy.
PS Your new pic is FAB! You look so much younger.
PPS Where abouts are you in Staffs? I used to live near Gnosall on the Staffs/Shroppy border.