My bridesmaids have a city in mind and a reason for that city (or town I don't know actually) I don't know where it is, I'm still in two minds as to whether I should find out more information or have the whole weekend as a surprise. They've told Ash and he thinks that if I find anything out I should still have surprises and just find out where we are going and not what we are doing, so I'm sort of thinking I might as well have the whole lot as a surprise if I decide to do that anyway.... what do you think? We're going for the weekend of my birthday anyway, which I know sounds funny as I really didn't want him having that weekend as his stag, but we worked out with so many of my friends working in schools, especially one of my bridesmaids who has to come from London, it made sense for me to have it at the beginning of the half term so people have time to travel back and recover. Plus he still wanted the last week in the half term anyway. Have you got any idea's for your hen yet?