Aw thanks everyone that's really nice of you to make such lovely comments
I feel great and am really really looking forward to getting to goal. Hopefully it wont' take me much longer and I can't wait to post the pics of when I do!
Vital stats someone asked me, I'll have to dig them out of my weight book. pm me and I'll have a look
Kath xxxxx
I am on day 1 on CD (re-start). looking at your photos are a real inspiration. You look fantastic. Well done. How long has this taken you to do and was it on the cambridge diet.
HEY KATH,(hehehe you started on my b-day!!)
just wanted to send you a big congrats on your weightloss...you look great...
I also wanted to ask if you have been doing any exercise over these past few months?
did you have any stumbles along the way??? (I broke down mid week 4 on CDSS and just cant get back into swing of things (now week 6)...:break_diet:
looking at this thread is an inspiration...got any other tips on sticking with it??????
:fyi: cheers
Yes Nina the counselling part of LL is what has made me stick to it - it has completely changed my way of thinking. It's not a cure by a long shot but it has certainly opened many boxes in my mind and given me some brilliant tools to use and coping strategies. I am lucky that I have an excellent Counsellor and she knows her stuff, some are not so fortunate - my friend has just given swapped to CD half way through as she's not impressed with the LLC she has and doesn't feel it's worth the extra money. We had a bit of a wobbly bit when we first moved into development and I didn't feel I was getting my money's worth but that has all be sorted and my LLC has whipped the group back into shapewonderful words...having read you full diary thread...I was able to empathize with many of your feelings and especially the chatterbox -- is that a topic discussed in LL?
I was wondering if the therapy part in LL is helpful? I have been reading on the net from various sources about emotional eating etc -- is that the sort of therapy in LL?
i admire your determination and strength...i will remeber you and ur anecdotes...keep up the great work!!!
thanks for the tips about not eating -- i do agree with that one...getting on track on monday --tomorrow...
Wow Kath, you've done really well with LL. I empathise with what you said about exercise. My past experience has been the same - and I have learned that what ever exercise I do, it has to be sustainable for life. So when I started LL I thought very carefully about what I would be prepared to do regularly, to build it in to my lifestyle and ensure that it became an invisible part of my life.
This is very true AmandaJayne, I love that idea of making it an invisible part of your life - that is some fantastic advice, that is what I need to concentrate on doing
You are absolutely right, Kath. The feelings of guilt and shame I felt when (in the past) I could not keep doing the exercise caused me to stop dieting, put all the weight back on, and have to cope with feelings of failure and depression.
Please put your feelings of shame aside, and learn from your mistakes.
Oh yes the guilt thing is quite awful isn't it, I hope I have taken a lesson from the mistake of going to the gym for 3 hours every day! Goodness knows how I ever thought I was going to maintain that ridiculous schedule lol
It could be that you are like me and have really taken on board the CBT/TA counselling advice, and used it when the going got tough. I have found it to be crucial to my continuing success. No other weightloss programme has ever addressed my self-destructive eating habits so effectively, and given me the tools to 'fight back'.
Yes I have, I have found the CBT/TA invaluable, in fact I'd like to do it all again! This is true, I have done every diet under the sun but none of these diets have actually tackled my self destructive eating habits so as soon as I've lost a chunk I just went mad and returned to old habits, never again though - you are right, with these tools we can fight back can't we, and fight back we will
So briing it on
Quote: "I hope I have taken a lesson from the mistake of going to the gym for 3 hours every day! Goodness knows how I ever thought I was going to maintain that ridiculous schedule"
Oh Kath! That reminded me of myself a few years ago when, at one point, I would attend the gym TWICE a day! Crazy! Crazy! Crazy!
I was reading the Health and Fitness magazine and it had a programme to follow to lose some weight and tone up. Basically, for six days out of seven you had to at least an hour of exercise of different types every day (except one) ... for 12 weeks.
If you wanted to keep the benefits earned from doing this, you had to keep doing it. I don't know about you, but this is simply not realistic. With family, work and other commitments, exercise has to fit in with me now.
Found an old photo
A photo from a while ago ................and one from Sat