Abz no it should. And you shouldn't feel guilty. Look things happen, it's not the end of the world. When the wedding is done just start over. You're not there is "impress" or tick the box for the cdc, you're there for yourself. So take the guilt away.
It's your body and your choice, and you have only yourself to answer to and not us or anyone else. But on the other side of that I would say, take it easy, don't go over board, and don't make too many excuses. Do what you want and enjoy your time and the wedding and spending time with people you care about.
As far as your mum, as I said before I don't know you mum or the full story, we can only go off the info you give us, and based on that we make our comments and suggestions, that we hope will help or at the very least make you reflect on the situation. I am sure that whatever you did or didn't do you did with the best interest of your mother at heart.
on a side note, I made some crisps...that an abortion those turned out to be. I think I made them too thick. But once I OH came in to save them they weren't too bad at all. hehehe
Elle...Well at least your busy. And no we didn't come up with the crazy frog, wish we had...we would have made a mint!! Just ringtones hun. Drink drink drink. Water is , in my mind, the magic that makes my fat disappear!! hehehe.
Gem...you working hard? or hardly working?
Tyn, eh...typical men...day one thing then do another. Will he not give your room away in septemeber? p.s glad to hear you mum is trying to get things together. Always sending you good karma to help you on your way.