DoingItForMe
Full Member
YOu will have clocked up a fair few activity points with that walking - that'll go some way to sorting out those 'missing' PPs Stay strong
Karen. You are such a lovely person. I admire you for opening your home to the young refugee. I suppose in his own way your dad is just trying to protect you and his grandkids however misguided. I remember my dad (died six years ago at 83) when he saw a coloured person in our area for the first time . He was so shocked . He had grown up in a totally white community and it was so alien to him. Things have changed now thank god but maybe there is still an element of suspicion in your dads mind from growing up in that kind of environment . I know he has spent many years in England but our childhood can still have a big effect on our personality .
I am NOT saying that your dad or my dad for that matter were racist just that it was a big change for them and they found it more difficult to accept. . Our age group has grown up with a multicultural society so there is much less suspicion TG.
I am not trying to justify his rude behaviour with the hand shaking but maybe trying to understand whats going on in his mind. .