ButtErFlies-In It To Win It

[claira07]

Anyway, I'll need to catch up but dont think I'll be able to read through thread-3 wks worth. So just start again. How is everybody? How are your weight losses? And how are you all feeling? I've missed you all and looking forward to talking to you all again! Love you! xxx[/QUOTE]
glad yor back love, this week was a bit bad for me, but ok now, sat here in size 14 river island jeans, and spanx to hold in the flab, lol. i feel so good, i am applying to be a cdc once i reach 28 bmi, about 12 st 4lb i think. so about 4-5 weeks and i can apply.
i think your right have a week at home then come down the plans, dont start with ss you may find another plan works better for you, ss+ has been great for me, until last week but had my 4th totm in 9 weeks, and very long and heavy, so that probably didnt help , xxxxxxx

 

[Zoe.D]

No I havn't seen that. Will go and have a nose now. Thanks Claira.

 

[broxi]

Hi Zoe, Great losses! Well done! You must be feeling great! Yes, good to be back in ways! I will find it so hard to get back on CD though but I don't want to blow this! Why has it been quiet? Are people on holiday or have they given up do you know? I do worry about everyone - myself included - to stay motivated - I was struggling big time before holiday. How have you been?

 

[broxi]

Hi Claira, great to hear you're getting so skinny too. I can't wait to wear River Island clothes cos that's one of my main goals- but my son gets mad and says I'm way too old for them! Don't care!
Yes gonna think about CD tomorrow or next day and maybe just do SS during week and SS+ or 810 or something at weekends cos to be honest I was getting rfeally really depressed before - it was playing havoc with my emotions and I don't think I can face that again! Anyway, I'll need to go now and get ready as I'm meeting my mum. It was great to come back and see David my son and my dog. He (the dog) slept beside me all night- i love him!

BTW Jason and me go camping all the time and it's amazing- the secret is to get electric hook up then you can have all mod cons - heater, cooker, ghds, laptop for dvds etc, mini fridge, light. We absolutely love it - I would go so far as to say it changed my life. It showed me how to totally switch off at weekends. You need to persuade him but I'm same- I've to persuade Jason as it is much more work for him than me.

 

[Zoe.D]

Hi Broxi, I have been really well thanks and I am feeling great with the weight coming off.

I thinks it's been quiet because some are struggling a bit and don't want to come on and be negative which is mad cos that's what we are here for, for the good and bad times and I certainly don't mind when people need some support when hitting a rough patch. Also holidays etc so a mixture really.

 

[claira07]

you werent here broxi thats why it was quiet lol, xxxx

 

[Zoe.D]

Yep mostly for that reason too lol. xx

 

[Shopaholic]

Welcome back Broxi! Glad you had a great time, and wow, only 3lb gain - fantastic, you will have that off in no time.

I haven't been 100% since coming back from my holidays in June, found it really difficult to get back into the diet mode. Now I'm going to Paris for the weekend on friday and I'm not going to even attempt to do CD. I've been having a healthy dinner all this week and so far I've stayed the same. So just a 2lb loss last week, but I'm happy with that tbh. My size 14 dresses fit just nicely, so I feel good.

 

[claira07]

if it doesnt rain, it pours............
dr thinks charlie has swine flu, and now my sis may have it who is pregnant, matt has taken ill today and my sisters brother in law and nephew have been confirmed. x

 

[Witchy]

Aw Broxi its great to have you back glad you had a good holiday.

Claira hope you and yours are ok honey.

Well done to all the losses.

Guys im still in bed with flu, ive not energy and cant get up and cant be bothered to do anything I feel crappy and uk, cant get to the docs they wont see anyone with my symptoms and nhs line say its swine flu, so im just taking it easy and sleeping. plus i cant breath and have to have an inhaler cos I cant catch my breath so as soon as im back on my feet I will be back.

 

[Bess]

Good to see you back Broxi, Maderia sounds fab! I wondered where you were - I've been so busy with work that for a couple of weeks I didn't look at Mini's much, but I still drop in from time to time.
Only 3lbs on after a holiday - flippin' fantastic - well done! So glad to see you looking happier too.

xx

 

[Shopaholic]

if it doesnt rain, it pours............
dr thinks charlie has swine flu, and now my sis may have it who is pregnant, matt has taken ill today and my sisters brother in law and nephew have been confirmed. x

Take care of yourself Claira, and I hope Charlie isn't too bad with it.

 

[Shopaholic]

Guys im still in bed with flu, ive not energy and cant get up and cant be bothered to do anything I feel crappy and uk, cant get to the docs they wont see anyone with my symptoms and nhs line say its swine flu, so im just taking it easy and sleeping. plus i cant breath and have to have an inhaler cos I cant catch my breath so as soon as im back on my feet I will be back.

Victoria really hope you are up and about soon. If you can't catch your breath try propping yourself up a bit on a lot of pillows so that gravity can help a bit. Take care of yourself!

 

[claira07]

thanks girls, victoria, i feel for you, i just drove 40mile round trip looking for a thermometer, all sold out, out of hours doc wants me to drive another 35mile round trip to get tamiflu, which he says doesnt do much just shortens flu by maybe 1 day. so i said unless hes dying im staying in lol. i am mean, i put them both to bed in pants only with paracetomol. and im catching up on some telly. this serves me right for being a hypercondriac for years lol xxxx

 

[broxi]

Jings, I hope Charlie, Matt and you Victoria are all ok. Make sure you look after boys claira, and look after yourself Victoria. I'm just back from holiday with little news and didn't realise this swine flu had become so widespread but it can be dangerous so please be very careful. xxx

 

[Witchy]

Hey Broxi sorry for late post dont know if im going to be around full stop my husband has left me tonight so while the whole house is sleeping im slowing going out of my mind, not sure what the future offers for me or if I will continue with CD need to reajust and get strong again, life sucks not looking forward to telling the kids in the morning and friends i feel like a big loser

 

[broxi]

Hey Victoria are you there just now?

 

[broxi]

Is this a definite thing?
Jason did this to me early on in our marriage but we got it sorted?

 

[Witchy]

Think so Broxi, i sent you a pm.

I feel so lost cant sleep and dont know what my next move is going to be im dreading him coming home this morning its going to be awful.

 

[broxi]

Is he maybe just threatening to leave or talking about it, men can be very like that sometimes- don't know how to deal with their emotions properly and act that all or nothing way

Do you want to talk on a private group or anything?