ButtErFlies-In It To Win It
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claira07
needs a real kick in the
feel pissed right off that we cant be 100% and talk about how well were doing if i cant talk about food atall i cant do this, i have to cope with it 24/7 and think that is an important part of dealing with my food issues, i know you dont cook yet and find being around food difficult, but you know you need to address this before things are right, and i think not having anyone to talk to hefre about these issues dosnt help, does that meke sense. i love this little group and all off you in it, this is the only thing keeping me going, but i cant talk freely now if i stay on 100% forum. xxx
Yes Claira I feel the same. I don't want people talking about food all the time but we have to be real and we are in this for the long haul. Or friendhsips would be unnatural if we never talked about food. Also I prob will cheat at some point and I want to be able to talk to you lot about it. The whole purpose of Butterflies is for people who are totally committed but none of us are saints. But it wont make any difference if we move the thread cos we still can do same thing and just chase away people who aren't committed to CD. Do you agree?
Eternalflame
Excited about the new me!
How do you rule you ppl who aren't committed tho Broxi? I found in the first week, I wanted to know why I had cravings and what sort I had, if anyone else had to the same.. and then the same in week 2, with the growling in my tummy.. and the thought of food. We are all normal and will have those feelings, its an extreme diet and ppl need to be able to share those feelings, so that we can all support each other. I would hate not being able to say how I felt, thats why we are in this group isn't it? To support each other? I think the essence of the group will change if we move and not sure why we need to? If we move to the main forum, it is much more open and less like a safe haven! x
Eternalflame
Excited about the new me!
That doesn't sound fair. Heck, thats why this sort of support thread is sooo needed. So if we are on the main forum, that means that we can? Not sure what difference it makes? xxx
LadyB
Silver Member
Hello Everyone!!
Would it be possible if I could join your group?? I am currently on day 4 of my journey into this diet. I have choosen this path because I want to address my 'relationship' with food, and move to having a healthy 'relationship' with food.
From what I understand so far - this path and diet is tough, and I am quite happy to talk about my 'relationship' with food as I think this will help me move to the place I want to be.
I have contibuted to the discussion, and just in case you haven't read it - I am very happy to support people through the good and the not so good!!
I am committed to this though......
Bx
Would it be possible if I could join your group?? I am currently on day 4 of my journey into this diet. I have choosen this path because I want to address my 'relationship' with food, and move to having a healthy 'relationship' with food.
From what I understand so far - this path and diet is tough, and I am quite happy to talk about my 'relationship' with food as I think this will help me move to the place I want to be.
I have contibuted to the discussion, and just in case you haven't read it - I am very happy to support people through the good and the not so good!!
I am committed to this though......
Bx
Eternalflame
Excited about the new me!
Claira.. how does moving the thread give us more freedom? If its a 100% forum, it will still be the same rules that apply.. So, we still won't be able to talk about it. Oooohhhhh, this is silly, I'll have to just hide what I feel. I know if I fall off, then its my fault, i'm not going to sit here and type, guess what i've just had something naughty. lol..Its only human we'll have set backs anyway, the thing is that we have our support on here and we move on and get back on track. Don't think what difference it will make. Who said we need to move the thread? xxx
Eternalflame
Excited about the new me!
Hello LadyB
Of course you can, all welcome on here. WE may be moving the tread tho, but the same group will still remain. Good to have you on board. x
Of course you can, all welcome on here. WE may be moving the tread tho, but the same group will still remain. Good to have you on board. x
Eternalflame
Excited about the new me!
I'm signing off now, seems Forum politics are the talk today.. So sunshine is the key. I have a glass of iced water on the go and am ready for a tanning session in the garden. Chat later Claira and Lady B. xxx
Hi again Lady B and a very big welcome.
Can I clarify what I mean about people who are committed. I mean us who are on here talking to each other and supporting each other which was what this thread was about. When I started this diet I opened a thread for friends and they all hopped off and I was left all alone until I met all you lovely people. I just mean committed to the final pound and to each other- until we all reach the final pound.
But does it really matter where we are cos it's still us talking all the time about whatever we want. I'm am not bothered whatsover about you lot talking about food; I just find it hard if ppl are on and off all the time and describing what they had to eat. But you are all my friends and I can't tell you how much I need you to do this. In fact I know certainly that I couldn't do it without you. So please don't think I was being cheeky to anyone! xx
Can I clarify what I mean about people who are committed. I mean us who are on here talking to each other and supporting each other which was what this thread was about. When I started this diet I opened a thread for friends and they all hopped off and I was left all alone until I met all you lovely people. I just mean committed to the final pound and to each other- until we all reach the final pound.
But does it really matter where we are cos it's still us talking all the time about whatever we want. I'm am not bothered whatsover about you lot talking about food; I just find it hard if ppl are on and off all the time and describing what they had to eat. But you are all my friends and I can't tell you how much I need you to do this. In fact I know certainly that I couldn't do it without you. So please don't think I was being cheeky to anyone! xx
claira07
needs a real kick in the
for nikki, if we have to move it would be to the main forum not the 100% one, it seems food talk is not allowed,
welcome lady b, nice to have you.
broxi just ordered my callenetics off ebay, got to work out which foods i want for next week now, going off lots of them already xxx
welcome lady b, nice to have you.
broxi just ordered my callenetics off ebay, got to work out which foods i want for next week now, going off lots of them already xxx
claira07
needs a real kick in the
Quote:
Originally Posted by Serena A
I think KD hit the nail on the head the last time this subject came up, the problem arises when the 100% forum is viewed as a place for 100% people, when it is in fact a forum for 100% posts, so the issue of feeling "welcome" or not doesn't come into it.
so do we move our group to the main caimbridge forum or stay where we are but no mention of any food drink or starbucks macdonalds etc and go to main caimbridge to say ive been a girl and resisted xxx
thanks girls xxx
Originally Posted by Serena A
I think KD hit the nail on the head the last time this subject came up, the problem arises when the 100% forum is viewed as a place for 100% people, when it is in fact a forum for 100% posts, so the issue of feeling "welcome" or not doesn't come into it.
so do we move our group to the main caimbridge forum or stay where we are but no mention of any food drink or starbucks macdonalds etc and go to main caimbridge to say ive been a girl and resisted xxx
thanks girls xxx
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