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thanks were gonna need it, she doesnt want to do any of that she is 112 nearly 13 going on 30 lol she want to spend all day at the mall shopping, the family has alot of money and she gets anything she wants, we are not well off live in a council house and now both redundant, her mum got the house from matts divorce, matt lost everything, and she says well why havnt you got a mortgage we nearly own ours, yeah matts lol . never mind ypou lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink,
think we have day trips without her and let her do her own thing for a couple of months then give her the option to join in again. if she doesnt want to then its her loss not ours, we will have her for tea every friday with grandparents and her mum will soon get fed up of having her mope around every w/e lol
thanks for help nikki xxxxxxxx
 
on a good note another 1lb down but im out of ketosis xx
 
Exactly Claira, if she doesn't want to go, then you go and enjoy your day at the beach or the park, thats free and fun to do. At the end of the day, she has the choices so if that's her choice, then so be it. xxx
 
how are things ur end, with the kids lol xx
and i know what you mean about mother in laws, im always on trial but father in law is lovely, think me and matts mum are both strong willed and clash sometimes lol x
 
Things are ok Claira. Rhys seems to have settled in, doesn't seem like he has to rush over to his friends this weekend or today. Last week he was insisting on going back to the old area, which isn't a problem as I work there anyway. But asked him how he feels now and he said its good. Ian's 2 boys seem happy, his eldest has probs anyway, but chats more to me then to Ian and seems again, like Rhys happy with the situation. His youngest is happy anyway and alway's comes looking for me when he gets in from school, bless ;). They are eating "well", lol.. I do the shopping on Sat and have to top up on milk and veg's as I cook healthy meal for them each night and then they get their "treat (cake) as desert". Doesn't bother me to do my packs in front of them now, did them all triple decker sarnie's on Sunday for lunch (had a roast at 6), and they were happy with that and I drank my shake, lol..

I put on some suit trousers this morn (not worn for 2 weeks) and could put a whole fist down the front, so CD is doing ok with me at the moment. I don't expect a huge loss this week, will be happy with a lb, as lost 3 last 2 weeks and I'm usually a slow looser, lol.. So I'd be ok with that.

Ian's mum is a bit of a busy body, lol.. She wants to know whats going on all the time, they (Ian and her) speak on phone daily, get's on my nerves a bit, lol.. He's 45!! But I leave them to it and disappear to watch catch up TV. Will start going for a walk I think from tomorrow, give me something else to do, lol. 3 weeks tomorrow, I go to Barbados with Ian and all his family (lovely, lol), gonna be strange that, 1st real hol with him and his whole family are there too. Double wammy bammy getting my kit off in front of them all, lol..

Need to do some shopping for the hols, but still worried about trying clothes on and them not fitting yet, but will have to brave that one as mine are starting to look a little on the baggy side. xxx
 
you will have a fab hol, i talk to my mum every day, but dont see her very ofter, and i chat to sister every day, i have a close family which is nice but matt finds it clostrephobic sometimes (spelling) , sorry i was so long reading ss+ thread, left you a message re tofu xx
glad the boys are all doing well, hows your daughter and bump, xx
 
Kayleigh seems to be ok, she's eating far too much as feels that she can't or shouldn't do much, lol.. so looks like she's gained 2 stone already and not even 3 months gone. Spoken to her about Healthy eating and smoking (as she was smoking before) and reiterated that she now needs to think of the baby and not just of herself. She's quite immature for a 20 yr old, thinks that everything will be landing on her lap, though not sure why as I've worked since she was 9. Kids nowday's, lol.. it's the influences that they are around with their friends that makes the difference. Her BF does nothing, can't be bothered to work, so that say's it all.

Will look on ss+ thread about the tofu, lol.. I need to go up plans next week, then onto 1000 before I go on hols, should reduce the amount I will gain even off plan that way when I'm away. Though will still low carb, can't see me not drinking ;).

My family are close, I speak to my sister daily, my mum weekly really, my sis is like me best mate. I think Ian being close to his family is good, just don't want them on the doorstep daily, lol.. Sorry for the delay in responding to this message, have been caught up in school appointments. Home now and can chat as much as I like as internet is being kind to me today :). xx
 
lol i have been spring cleaning my kitchen with matt, we are picking a room a day, whilst he is off. although im going out tomorrow leaving him to it lol xx
i was so lucky i didnt gain any weight during my pregnancy and went massive though, said it was a big baby, he was 6lb 9 bless him, i ate nothing but sausage and mash i would cry if i couldnt have it. although also ate lots of fruit xx
i soooo loved feeling him kick me it was the best feeling in the world xxx
 
Hi there! How are you all? I am feeling better but not doing better, if that makes any sense :D. It starts with the mind anyway. Feels like the hols are so close that we are leaving tomorrow :D. And that makes it hard to shape up and do what I need and want to do. I need to stock up on my shakes as well.
 
hiya asa
you will keep going luv, you have a great reason to loose the weight, you are doing sooo well, keep it up xxx
 
Thanks Claira! Hope your step daughter issue is solved soon. Must be difficult!
 
thanks, its hard but i dont want it to confuse my little charlie, bless him, he is hard work but can be so sensitive sometimes, he loves his sister xxx
 
has anyone else suffered from cramp in calfs since doing cd, i have always suffered with this, occassionally but its happening more often, i was in bits with it for 1/2 hour when i woke this morning, i usually eat lots of bananas and tomatoes for potasium which help, obviosly cant now xxx
 
oooh it hurts, lol
how are you, xx
 
It does hurt, doesn't it?!! If you concentrate on relaxing that helps a wee bit.

I'm doing good, found out I got the job I went for an interview for today, so should be on top of the world but strangely feel a bit hollow. I don't know if I'm lonely, or just missing celebrating with wine or such! But gawd I want to eat :(
 
of course your suit was too big lol, bet that felt good, congrats on the job, just think of all the celebrating you can do later, why not set a date 6 months from today as your celebration date xxx
 
i know that feeling and ive had 3 totm already in 5 weeks x
 
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