I'm not surprised you're grumpy CD. I get cross with my OH when he goes away for just one night with work and leaves me to do everything for 4 on my own! No way would I let him shove off for a year or more! I'm amazed at your resilience.
Trudy, I'm absolutely convinced that getting skinny as a rake is not a good idea. It's not very nice (believe me, I've been there, albeit many years ago) and it's a full-time job to maintain. I guess if you're in your early twenties and want to be a clothes horse it's fine, but it's no way of life for us, or me anyway.
Have you tried arnica, for your coccyx, CD? x