Whoh, whoh,whoh Carly, beauty is in the eye of the beholder... not ALL men fancy STICK INSECTS!!! Most men I know prefer women with a little meat on their bones, not a bag of bones!!! Advertisers are spending millions of pounds trying to convince women and young girls that they have to be a Size 2 in order to attract men. TOTALLY UNTRUE! Despite what a lot of you ladies might think, most men are attracted by a warm smile and warm eyes...and a hearty laugh. I'd say you are already head and shoulders over the self-absorbed stick insects out there!
Love or happiness does not come in a single digit dress size. Sure we all want to improve our looks and appearance, men as well as women. But it's all about being happy in your own skin. From what I've seen on here, you have so many fabulous qualities that 99% of fellas would be delighted to get to know you as you are right NOW... not what you're going to look like 12 months from now.
So YOU be choosy, don't go for the first fella that looks your way, make him work for your attention and affection. You've a lot to offer, so get off your ass and get out there meeting loads of fellas in every social situation available, you don't know where you'll bump into Mr Right!
Good luck with that,
Conor