Wow carrie39, that's good going, well done you. How long have you been doing it now?
But yes know what you mean about being invited out, my friends just say oh just have one meal and then start again tomorrow, if only it was that easy. But your right, we shouldn't have to explain ourselves, they should just be happy with what we're doing!
And yes foofighter, I like that compromise, miss the meal and then meet for a drink afterwards. How far away from your stone mark are you? Sounds like it'll be some new smaller clothes for your treat.