Claire has returned! All help and advice appreciated!

omg yes how was ur evening ?xxx
 
OMG IT WAS F***ING FANTASTIC!!!

JOEY AND DONNIE ROCK! OMG OMG I felt like a teenager again!

TWAS FAB FAB FAB!

HA HA HA HA THEN I went to a karaoke after and had a sing lol

Had 1 tia maria and coke as drove the diet coke the rest of the night!

JOEY IS SO SEXY my god!

Be back later just reporting in! lolololol

Wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!

xx
 
Glad you had a good time huni! You sound really happy today!
 
Morning

How are you all....

Well to be honest Im ok, as you know had fab night.

Then my friend and I were talking and she started saying how obsessed I was about my weight my appearance etc it made me feel like sh*t tbh

Its bought up a whole lot of rubbish to be honest.. In short Pauls ex has appeared and I aint happy as she is stunning, long legs, blonde hair etc etc you know the type and then there is me who still aint happy. So Im feeling all insecure, then her saying that just tipped me over :(

Im so annoyed! Whats wrong with wanting to lose the weight to try and be happy... I mean all this with Paul theres a lot more to it really but I could talk for hours :/

Anyhoo, Im now thinking that I could get to my target weight and still not be happy :/

Oh Im confused - angry and upset...

On an upside I lost 3lb this week, now a lb off 4.5 stone :)

Getting somewhere!
xxxx​
 
((((((Hugs))))))Claire, don't let people like that grind you down. Of course you are taking care of your appearance cus you feel much better about yourself now. Maybe your friend is just jealous. And remember, there is a reason why she is an ex. He loves you and is marrying you. Looks aren't everything, she may not have a very nice personality xx
 
oh hun
ignore the mate for a start what is wrong with you taking interest in yourself for a change and trying to make yourself look and feel great! as for pauls ex, so what he with you, he loves you, he's marrying you!!!! sod her!
there is a reason why she is his ex!
you stay on track love and you will be happier! just think how sexy paul will think you look on your wedding day, you are doing really well love and the benefits will show through, when you will be happier, more confident and happily married lol
xxx
you know where i am if you want me lovey xxxx
i never far away
x
 
My mate I can get passed and Paul and I talked and talked sat night n last night - dunno if there is a solution as yh shes an ex but it all happened when I was preg with our first daughter and he was working in Kavos as rep....

Im so paranoid that he prefers n wants other women... and now coz of facebook (deep joy) they are coming bk...

I shut down n dont let him near me etc etc.. I am obsessed with my weight n i can see why that is - for the last 10 yrs my mum has banged on bout how fat I am etc etc that i do think im vile... then the fact when i fell preg he decided he was still gna go n wk there adn done what he wanted which I knew he would we werent together yet now seems to be rubbing in my face?

Argh.. Im going nuts!
 
Woah wait!... You were pregnant with his baby, he went abroad to work ant THAT'S when he was with this woman?
 
Yes - I told you it wasnt straight fwd!
 
Hmmmm I see why you are so uncomfortable with her being on the scene. Is he still in contact with her?
 
He hasnt been since we got back together until now and a few emails thru facebook (which I have read). I just cant let go and the only reason I think it could be is he chose that life over trying to work thru things here with me whilst preg (like running away) he said that himself...therefore I think thats why I feel inferior and 2nd best to them know what I mean?
 
I know what you mean. I think he needs to cut all ties with her and tell her that he is happy with his family
 
But he sees doing that isnt gonna prove anything... coz if Im suspicious now maybe if he cut ties I would think they would get in contact other ways ??

I know what he is saying and yes there is a part of me that thinks... hang on he is with me - he came back to me.. we went on had another baby and got engaged and are getting married next year??? How can this still have a hold over me?
x
 
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