Know what you mean hun, I am paranoid as I'm quite a private person and have revealed a lot of private, personal stuff in my diaries on minis. I've chosen not to use photos on the site for that reason. There is quite a 'public' side to my job and I don't want my private struggles getting muddled up with that.
I can totally understand where your coming from hon especially because of yoru work..
BUT you are a real example Curly of what can be achieved, you are confident and lovely and always supportive of others, and it does help the rest of us to see what can be done. Especially those at the early stages, where you don't believe it can really happen!
Aww thanks so much hon thats very sweet.. Im blushing now....
As for facebook, it is kind of an open world anyway, where others can see and comment on things that might have been private a few years ago. That's just the way the world is changing i guess. I can see it might be uncomfortable to have personal comments from a 'boss' type person, but as long as they were not inappropriate? Maybe he/she is trying to be encouraging? Only you can tell, but maybe you can keep some pics as accessible to 'friends' only if you are worried?
He is a really lovely guy and was only being really sweet he is only my age and was only saying it in a nice way but I just felt like ooooh he knows what I look like in my underwear now.. lol......
I suppose we are so used to looking at ourselves in terms of how much has been lost, whether we look slim or not, etc... other people may have different reactions!
Hugs Curly, you are a star.
thanks hon your a star too x
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