bulldogdaisy
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stef2009 said:Oh Yessss do it for u and no one else!!! Hope u manage to have a nice bike ride xxx
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Thanks Stef,we will walk the dog soon and then do the bike ride :0)
stef2009 said:Oh Yessss do it for u and no one else!!! Hope u manage to have a nice bike ride xxx
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mrsgosling3 said:Daisy. I hope you are ok and things work out how you want them too. Men can be such arseholes.sending lots of love and virtual hugs xxxx
Thanks about the PM hun :0) yea I know I'm on here a lot but sometimes that's cos he isn't interested in doing owt! Don't like the fact I have to suggest all the time,plus it often doesn't happen what I suggest.Money being tight doesn't help but I've said there's plenty of free stuff that we can do out or in the home! Anyhow he has offered to do dinner tonight!i dunno..
bulldogdaisy said:Thanks Mrs G,funny thing is I never been one for moaning about a partner...till now ;0) thanks for the love and hugs :0)
moonwatcher said:Wasn't criticising you for being on here hun... More him for the games etc. As you say, if he was interested in doing more, then you would both be doing it together. Sending you lots of thoughts and hugs, hope it sorts out one way or another. You are doing brilliantly by sticking to WW and losing so well, even though you have got that going on in the background. Hang onto that - I think it's good to have that feeling of control over something, when other things are a problem.
mrsgosling3 said:Sometimes you just need to get things off your chest and with such a great supportive network that we have here it's a great place to do it.hope you have a good day if you do decide to go on your bike ride. I'm reading my kindle, hubby on his laptop and my sd who wasn't due to be here this weekend is reading her ebook. Such an exciting life we lead.
my hubby never wants to go anywhere or do anything but my life is so hectic sometimes I just dont mind and the other times when I do I have accepted I do it on my own.
Having my sd living here has made things better for me as she loves doing everything with me. Can get a bit overwhelming at times but I don't feel alone anymore. I have just accepted that it who my hubby is. He isn't all bad - he has a heart of gold and loves me dearly and we laugh a lot but he just has no get up and go - unless we are on holiday when he can never just do nothing!!! This year was the first time he managed that and it was only because he was reading the 50 shades trilogy!!!
mrsgosling3 said:It is because When he is on the railways he works such long hours. He leaves at 4am and gets home anywhere between 7 and 9 so the weekends (when he isn't working) he is shattered but at the moment he's working Monday to Friday 7am to 5.30pm but he just doesn't want to do anything anyway. Still after 11 years I'm used to it
nessa123 said:Glad you had a good bike ride hun. Let's hope OH starts putting more effort in now xx
bulldogdaisy said:Thanks Hun,just put on your diary that he is cooking dinner tonight and I didn't have to ask,lol.Will see how it goes,all takes time but it's gone on for so long I guess I'm impatient ;0)
nessa123 said:Maybe the lightbulb has finally switch on for him and he has realised how you are feeling. I hope this is a start of a better relationship for you hun xx
nessa123 said:Maybe the lightbulb has finally switch on for him and he has realised how you are feeling. I hope this is a start of a better relationship for you hun xx
bulldogdaisy said:Thanks for all your support and help last night :0)
nessa123 said:We are all friends here Hun. Xx
Jaly said:Looks goodEating a little bit more probably wouldn't be a bad thing though, especially as you're earning activity points! x Glad your OH is starting to see the light and come out of his little bubble a little bit and realise how you feel, hopefully something's clicked! x