TINKERBELLA
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Not sure really just feel like eating -/ feel really emotional as my daughter going away tomorrow!! Not being weighed until I come back from Germany and that's part of the problem aswell I think xx
Day 1 tomorrow
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Autumn76
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Tink!!!! Right come on we all have these weaknesses let's break it down.
How many days until you go away?
Have you had all your products and your ss+ meal?
One thing I found in past when I had a holiday planned was as if approached I got more and more urges to cheat or eat. But I've been close lately and it's such a better feeling in the morning when you haven't. Xx
TINKERBELLA
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Autumn, I go on Tuesday but my daughter away with the school tomorrow for 3 days and it's that what I'm struggling with!! I'm an emotional eater that's my biggest problem and why I'm having to do the diet in the first place!! I'm coming off on Sunday evening anyway but it's just hard to see the point of sticking at it until then. But I know it is worth it!! I really do!! I've had a hard day / my little boy had a hospital appointment today and tucking my daughter into bed tonight was hard going!!i don't even know what I would eat I don't even fancy anything but it's just feeling sorry for myself I think I just feel a bit drained!! xx
Autumn76
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Oh I get ya Hun I eat for emotions happy sad the lot.
Right why don't you make a list of thins you can do when she's gone to keep you busy. Be it nails ironing reading anything to help keep you occupied and not resort to food. After tonight you only have two full days until you come off for the meal out (Indian isn't it) xxx
TINKERBELLA
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Yep it's Indian and I know it will be worth the wait!! I know it prob sounds silly but I'll be ok once I know they've got there safely - of course I'll miss her the rest of the time but I know she will be having a great time!! It's just hard because she never stays away with anyone but my parents and even then it's very rarely n I miss her terribly. Don't worry my little boy keeps me busy enough with his terrible two stage!!!
Thank you so much I knew coming on here was the right thing to do!! I've had my SS+ meal now and feel better!! Still got a bar to have a bit later xx
Thank you so much I knew coming on here was the right thing to do!! I've had my SS+ meal now and feel better!! Still got a bar to have a bit later xx
LizzRob
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Ok ok so deal with the emotions minus the food. The food doesn't make things better, or keep your daughter at home, it'll be a short term buzz and then you'll spend the next 3 days beating yourself up over it. Yes, you go away Sunday, but these additional 2 days on the diet are 2 days more weight loss for the fam to see while you're away!!
You our have to keep going! Because you're quite simply awesome!!
TINKERBELLA
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Awww Lizz, you are so right it won't change anything I know that!!! And by sticking at it for the next few days shud justify the Indian!! And you are definitely right I'll feel like a failure before I even start to get back on when I come home!! xx
Autumn76
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You knew we are always here. We are like the three amigos. Luckily as one if us goes off plan or away there's always 2 left to keep ready for the return lol. I wouldn't have managed Monday like I did without you two for sure. I always struggle restarting and yet here I am day 4 done been in the pink on the pee stix since yesterday and am aiming for thurs 5th June as having a protein only nandos that night as step 2 cos form the day after I will be step 3 for a week.
Hang in there savour your bar and hug your little girl. All will be well in the world x
LizzRob
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I'm loving the three amigos!!! That's awesome lol
But we do seem to time things right and this support network is phenomenal!
Tink you're better than giving in. It's not your style and you'll remain strong knowing that today's rubbish is nearly over and tomorrow is a new day, maybe a new battle, but it's one you will win because you're determined and we don't let emotions beat our will to succeed!
Distraction is key!
Current loss: 22lbs and 15.5 inches
But we do seem to time things right and this support network is phenomenal!
Tink you're better than giving in. It's not your style and you'll remain strong knowing that today's rubbish is nearly over and tomorrow is a new day, maybe a new battle, but it's one you will win because you're determined and we don't let emotions beat our will to succeed!
Distraction is key!
Current loss: 22lbs and 15.5 inches
TINKERBELLA
Silver Member
Sorry ladies I headed in the bath nothing to eat in there lol!! Had a nice relaxing soak and put everything into perspective!! Painted my nails and now gonna sit down for half hour with my book and my bar!! I've got through it - thanks to you ladies / your pretty amazing!!!!!! Thank you so much xx
LizzRob
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Glad you made it through Tink! This is what we are here for hun! 
Just need to keep strong and believing in the diet!
Hope your head is better this morning Autumn?
Well its only bloomin Friday Short day at work today and another off scale achievement! My clothes are all officially too big for me! I'm struggling to find things to wear to work, so need to up the ebay shopping. My daughter commented on how big my dress was on me....its my favourite dress as well but it really has to go Sadtimes!
Going to see my mate after work today that we are going to barbados with in August and her and her chap are proper gym bunnies and she's lost loads of weight. We've not seen each other since christmas so it will be big shock all round! Lets hope she isnt a b1tch about it like the other friend was!
Just need to keep strong and believing in the diet! Hope your head is better this morning Autumn?
Well its only bloomin Friday
Short day at work today and another off scale achievement! My clothes are all officially too big for me! I'm struggling to find things to wear to work, so need to up the ebay shopping. My daughter commented on how big my dress was on me....its my favourite dress as well but it really has to go Sadtimes! Going to see my mate after work today that we are going to barbados with in August and her and her chap are proper gym bunnies and she's lost loads of weight. We've not seen each other since christmas so it will be big shock all round! Lets hope she isnt a b1tch about it like the other friend was!
Autumn76
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Guten morgen ladies (getting Tink ready for Germany there lol)
So well done on not eating that's an amazing achievement. And well done Lizz on having baggy clothes. You have lost loads of inches so not surprise really even though I'm 19 pound down I don't feel it which is odd I know.
Good weigh jn is kind to me later on.
Let me know if your friend notices later on Lizz xx
So well done on not eating that's an amazing achievement. And well done Lizz on having baggy clothes. You have lost loads of inches so not surprise really even though I'm 19 pound down I don't feel it which is odd I know.
Good weigh jn is kind to me later on.
Let me know if your friend notices later on Lizz xx
LizzRob
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I've just got changed at work and you'd have thought they'd never seen a woman before! Lots of open mouths and shock!
I'll put this in perspective for you, i'm wearing leggings (too big haha), a burgundy vest top, and a little black work jacket (again too big yippee!!)...and make up. My hair is tied to the side as i dont want to wash it as its just been coloured, so thats in a plait.....i dont look too bad but jaw dropping i am not! Nice confidence boost though
Meeting an ex (from 10 years ago) for a quick coffee in a bit as he's been made redundant....wonder what he will say....pmsl
What time is Weigh in Autumn??? Very excited! i'll be coming on when i can just for a nose!
I'll put this in perspective for you, i'm wearing leggings (too big haha), a burgundy vest top, and a little black work jacket (again too big yippee!!)...and make up. My hair is tied to the side as i dont want to wash it as its just been coloured, so thats in a plait.....i dont look too bad but jaw dropping i am not! Nice confidence boost though
Meeting an ex (from 10 years ago) for a quick coffee in a bit as he's been made redundant....wonder what he will say....pmsl
What time is Weigh in Autumn??? Very excited! i'll be coming on when i can just for a nose!
TINKERBELLA
Silver Member
Hello all,
Well my daughter got off ok she was super excited this morning (I had a little cry in the car after I'd drop her off lol) and back to all positive!! I'm focussing on getting everything packed for Germany while she's away so we can have a lovely day together on Monday!!
Lots of running around to be done -- which will keep me occupied - I'll be doing an unofficial weigh in on Sunday morning!!
Well done on your inch loss Lizz, that really is amazing -- you are quite literally shrinking!!!!
When's you weigh in Autumn? x
Well my daughter got off ok she was super excited this morning (I had a little cry in the car after I'd drop her off lol) and back to all positive!! I'm focussing on getting everything packed for Germany while she's away so we can have a lovely day together on Monday!!
Lots of running around to be done -- which will keep me occupied - I'll be doing an unofficial weigh in on Sunday morning!!
Well done on your inch loss Lizz, that really is amazing -- you are quite literally shrinking!!!!
When's you weigh in Autumn? x
Autumn76
Silver Member
It's ok you can speak for us both. Been shopping in the rain with mother in law and dragged her away from costa on more than one occasion lol.
Got my niece a little lawn mower (toy one) much to jays amusement. Basically his brother has had all his garden landscaped and paved and lawned and it's taken ages and lots of effort n money and it was finished a week ago. He is so anal about the lawn that he ain't gonna like a 3yr old tramping up n down with a lawn mower hahaha tough luck.
Keep yourself busy Tink and just think way fun she will be having.
Weigh in is about 3-30 she's coming. Will have an audience as jay is home and doing 'stuff' with his dad and I will be home with his mum by then. Stuff means making a mess btw xx
Got my niece a little lawn mower (toy one) much to jays amusement. Basically his brother has had all his garden landscaped and paved and lawned and it's taken ages and lots of effort n money and it was finished a week ago. He is so anal about the lawn that he ain't gonna like a 3yr old tramping up n down with a lawn mower hahaha tough luck.
Keep yourself busy Tink and just think way fun she will be having.
Weigh in is about 3-30 she's coming. Will have an audience as jay is home and doing 'stuff' with his dad and I will be home with his mum by then. Stuff means making a mess btw xx
TINKERBELLA
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You definitely sound hot Lizz!!! Check u out!!!
Well done for avoiding costa Autumn!! Ha ha lol your niece is gonna love that!! But doesn't sound like jays brother will be as keen!!
Can't wait to hear how you've got on Autumn uve done so well to reign it all this week!! Hopefully the scales will reward you!!
Lizz let us know what the ex thought ;-) x
Well done for avoiding costa Autumn!! Ha ha lol your niece is gonna love that!! But doesn't sound like jays brother will be as keen!!
Can't wait to hear how you've got on Autumn uve done so well to reign it all this week!! Hopefully the scales will reward you!!
Lizz let us know what the ex thought ;-) x
