Thank you, she can be lovely I just wish she'd stop the senseless arguing. I will hopefully be able to separate the dress memory but I dunno, I have an odd memory at times. I would have told a bit of my story as I do find it's sometimes therapeutic, but unfortunately I now haven't time! So I may do tomorrow. Child in bed now so at least it feels calmer, and OH on his way home from work, so reassuring hug will happen in around 30 mins lol. On a positive note, usually when she stresses me its a struggle not to eat, but I haven't even thought of that this evening.