Theeeeerrrrrreeeeee back, the night flushes, day flushes are again out of control and I'm again feeling a little p*****d off. A male shoventist (why can't I spell) pig I work work, must say he wouldn't dare speak to me in a derogatory way, we was discussing a problem with views for different angles...and I was flushing...I hate it I work in a male dominated work place and cannot be seen to be weak, and I feel the flushing makes me at a disadvantage, especially him... and I now think I may have gout in my little fingers top joint... I've googled it and it says oily fish,red meat and not drinking enough water can cause it, or women going through the menapause....another damm problem any of you ladies suffering the same? Or just little old menapausal me :-(