Emotional

sarah88

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As anyone been like this when dieting, last sat I spent the day gardening and had Chinese with family for tea only they ordered it without asking what I wanted, I just broke down in to tears cause I was afraid there would be nothing I could eat, then today I had a really tough day cleaning and when my partner suggested it didn't matter if we didn't have tea till 7 I bike down again, cause I didn't wanna be stood there at 7 cooking, these both r stupid things and I didn't understand y I was getting so upset over them, I felt stupid. This is start of wk 7 for me and wondered if anyone else experienced the same. My sister in law was like I don't think dieting agrees with u and u need a big bar of chocolate, but I'm not ready to let a couple emotional moment put me off dieting at the end of the day I don't wanna be fat anymore!
 
Anyone?
 
Yep. Sometimes when we're food shopping I get so upset because I get fed up with not being able to "have what I want "and fed up with having to think and plan all the time. My fella gets annoyed with me when I say "I can't have that..." or "mmmm I really wish I could have it". He gets funny with me and says I can have it and I should. But I don't because I know then I'll feel crap about myself and get upset.

This doesn't happen all the time but every once in a while, I cry about it. Which you're right, it is silly. But I have to remind myself that eating everything I wanted without thinking about it, was what got me here in the first place. I think we just have to roll with the punches hun. I'm sorry you feel like that :( big cuddles xxxx
 
Thankyou
 
I understand why you get upset. I do most of the cooking in our house and I get in from work earlier than my boyf and sometimes I clean or sometimes I go to the gym but very rarely am I sat down before 6:30 and then he'll say can we eat at 8? And its so infuriating because I want to cook tea and then chill out myself. Just because I finish work earlier doesn't mean I sit at home watching come dine with me!
Sometimes I get upset because I know this bloody watching what you eat lark is for life and sometimes I just want a bloody good load of chocolate or to be able to phone for takeaway when I can't be arsed to make tea! But very rarely is that an option!

Anyhow I hope you feel better today. Lots of love xx
 
Thanks beck
 
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