Good morning Theria - what a great weekend!
First of all - lunch at 10:30 on Saturday - good for you! I've done that plenty! Sometimes I'm not all that hungry but I eat anyway to protect myself against temptations later on. It's probably not strictly the correct approach but I figure if it doesn't mean I'm actually eating more, just at different times, then it can't hurt too much. It's certainly better than loading up on savoury snacks in a pub anyway, right? Good for you for thinking it through and making a really sensible decision.
Sunday, sounds like a cracking lunch with your pals and you dealt well with the change of venue. It's sooooo frustrating when that happens! However, as you say, it's one meal out of 21 for the week, there's no reason for it to derail you. I agree that trying to syn it could be really tricky. I've scoured the syns online thingy for something that might resemble your fishcake but couldn't find anything except for the "standard" fish and chip shop one (whatever one of those is) which says it's 7 syns. I find that hard to believe, quite frankly, because you'd assume it's deep fried if it's from a chippy, but anyhoo, maybe the coating stops it from absorbing too much oil, or something? I don't know. So I guess the main things were the bread, mayo and bits of oil here and there. I think I'd do what you've done, strike off your "banked" syns and start with a clean slate today. Stay within or under your limit for the remainder of the week, which you tend to do anyway.
The main thing is that I don't hear any guilt or beating yourself up, just back on plan after a throughly enjoyable time with your chums and some nice food as a bit of a treat. Also, still no alcohol, which I suspect it may have been easy to do or perhaps the "norm" a few months ago...? I can see a squillion reasons for you to be chuffed with yourself hun, and not one thing to be fed up about! Big old round of applause from me :clap: !
Need to know more about the freezer mat thingy please!
And finally, you do get one of these:
for forgetting to buy strawberries. Cardinal sin/syn!