So I've not been on for a while but I wanted to check in because I am quivering with rage.
I've lost over two stone now. I feel great. I look good. My wedding dress fits like a dream. My partner has been very supportive. Our wedding is next Saturday and I feel ready.
However I've just listened to a bunch of my colleagues sit there and noisily make judgments of my eating habits because they thought I couldn't hear them. I have a set of earphones in but nothing playing (I was in between tasks), and I've heard someone I considered a friend go on noisily about how what I am doing is bad for me and I shouldn't be allowed to do it, that "all I do is drink coke all day."
There's been a lot of judgement over my food consumption over the last few days. People have suddenly noticed my weightloss and apparently feel they have a right to an opinion without knowing the facts. Before sitting there and eating their third packet of crisps since 8.30am.
I'm very hurt. I don't understand why people think they have the right to judge someone else over their weight, especially as a matter of public discussion. They have no idea how -hard- this has been. I'm planning my wedding, I should be drinking prosecco and eating cake, but no- I am exercising the maximum self control and self discipline.
