Lind
Is feeling the love!
That would explain a lot, in your avatar you look so young (about my age?) didn't realise you have a little one! That would screw around with skin, especially if there is excess weight involved, and a c-section... I sympathise.
Still - I'm a believer of not being ashamed of your body. We all have flaws, there are always things we'd like to change - but I'd rather see a REAL person on the beach in a bikini than a sculpted mannequin type of person. I wear my scars, stretch marks, loose skin as a mark of victory than a thing to hide. I don't care what some random on the street thinks - they can f-off!
I am here, I am me, I live for my happiness. (Of course without hurting anyone else, and being as kind and helpful to others as I can be!)
Good on you for dumping your OH for the evening! He has no right to say anything!
God I love you for saying I look young!!! I'm 34!!
I would like a smoother tummy, it's very lumpy and bumpy and I would just like to get rid of the worst of it. But I am hoping I will be able to get my body back without resorting to surgery, but I am still not ruling it out.
As for the hubby, he has grovelled lots and lots and I have agreed to let him come out of Dumpsville!! lol Bless him!! lol