mrsgosling3
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Dubchick81 said:Thanks girls.. still not heard anything (not sure if Jonathan has) but will update soon as I've heard
How is everyone today? x
Keeping fingers crossed for you xx
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Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
My BF just called to see if I'd heard anything so he's obviously not heard anythign either yet..
I didn't ask and was really short on the phone with him coz I'm not talking to him..
But now I feel mean for being so short and unfriendly as I'm not that kinda person.. but he annoyed me last night so I'm not apologising.. Humph.. **sits in a sulk**
I didn't ask and was really short on the phone with him coz I'm not talking to him..
But now I feel mean for being so short and unfriendly as I'm not that kinda person.. but he annoyed me last night so I'm not apologising.. Humph.. **sits in a sulk**
mrsgosling3
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Dubchick81 said:
It's hard isn't it - me and my hubby had a row the other night - he started for no reason - and the next day he was supposed to go to work and I was off and he took the day off and I said don't bother if your going to be an arse but he had taken it off to be nice and I was a cow all morning but I wasn't apologising for something I hadn't done...I felt mean too but it wasn't my fault he was an arse. Hope you sort things soon and have some good news xx
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
It really is.. God it must be hard to a b!tch all of the time!! lol
We didn't even have an argument.. He just annoyed me..
I went to see my friend last night.. I've not seen in her ages and she's only back from hols but had lost her phone while away, I had a spare so I said she could have it.. So I dropped it up last night..
Before I went up I had said to my BF we'd bring Stringer (our dog) on a walk at about 8pm.. Grand..
So he text me at 7:45 and said come on, i'm going soon.. So I said I was having a cuppa and would be down shortly..
I only got to hers about 7ish as I was running late.. So we chatted and I drank my tea and then I left.. Prob just after 8 so was closer to half 8 when I got to his.. But because I didn't up n leave when he called (text), he went without me?! Like, how hard would it have been to hold off a few mins.. Or at least text and see i'm going now, stay where you are?!
I was so annoyed I called him a "selfish ar5ehole" and hung up the phone.. I didn't text or speak to him then at all after lastnight or at all today up until he rang that time.. But he rang all "hey hows it going? how yer day? bla bla bla" as if nothing happened and he wasn't a selfish little git!! Cheek of him!!
Now I do know it was only a stupid dog walk and I know I'm probably being stupid, but he's started just going on dog walks and not even telling me or asking me if I'd like to go.. And then saying things like "aw me Ma thinks Stringers missing you coz he hasn't seen you in a few days coz you've not been coming on our walks" As if it was my decision not to go on the walks.. And then has me thinking his Mam thinks I'm choosing not to go and leaving it all up to him.. I'm probably being paranoid but that's how its coming across..
mrsgosling3
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Dubchick81 said:
Men have a way of making you feel guilty and the bad person when you have done nothing wrong. Honestly I wouldn't get paranoid about it though. I'm sure his mum doesn't think that at all - he's probably just twisting it to make you feel bad about it.
chin up darling xxx
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Thanks lovely.. TOM is lurking and due in the next couple of days so no doubt he's magnifying things for me... Coz that's how nice he is... lolMen have a way of making you feel guilty and the bad person when you have done nothing wrong. Honestly I wouldn't get paranoid about it though. I'm sure his mum doesn't think that at all - he's probably just twisting it to make you feel bad about it.
emmaedes
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oooo i get where you are coming from 100%!!!!!!!
one thing that really bothers me is when other halfs parents make comments and then makes u feel that they are thinking bad of you etc!!! my OH parents will make a comment and it will indicate to me that they think we arent coping on our own or like i dont know certain things and stuff like that - i take it personally i know and over react but it bothers me!!
that is annoying though because as you said you could have stayed with your friend and not wasted the evening or he could have wait a while and could have gone on a walk!! Men!!!!
one thing that really bothers me is when other halfs parents make comments and then makes u feel that they are thinking bad of you etc!!! my OH parents will make a comment and it will indicate to me that they think we arent coping on our own or like i dont know certain things and stuff like that - i take it personally i know and over react but it bothers me!!
that is annoying though because as you said you could have stayed with your friend and not wasted the evening or he could have wait a while and could have gone on a walk!! Men!!!!
mrsgosling3
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emmaedes said:
Totally agree. Now I love my mother in law to pieces but it wasn't always like that. It took me a long time to get over one comment she made when me and my hubby got engaged. We got engaged quite quickly - within 8 weeks of meeting - and when we went to tell her and show her the ring she turned around to my hubby and said - what was wrong with Cheryl (his ex and kids mum who he had split up with 4 years before) I liked Cheryl!!!
emmaedes
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oooo what is it with mother in laws and ex's!!!! my Other Halfs mum works with his ex! grrrrrrrrrrr! lol and she would always insist on giving an update on her! until my OH turned round and had to say "i dont care!" god! my mum liked my ex's but she would never say it to my OH! god you did well to keep your cool!! lol
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Yea like I got real annoyed on the phone and he was like "what are you going mad for? Its only a walk? I'll talk to you later, i'll ring ya when I get back" Which is when I called him an ar5ehole and hung up..
I didn't even bother to explain that I'd just left my friend in a rush to go on the walk with him and the dog even tho I'd not seen her in ages.. he knew where I was and knows full well I'd not seen her in ages.. I am still really annoyed by it.. I'll take it out on the kettlebell tonight and get it out of my system..
Aww.. That was really mean..
Tho my Nana was very much like that with my brothers GF, then wife, now exwife.. lol (All the same person) She kept saying "Oh Samanthan down the road was asking for you David.. Remember you n her used to go out?!"
He kissed her when he was about 8 one Summer when we were over there.. ha ha ha ha
Ha.. that's real funny.. My Mam used to go on to my ex about how much she liked Jonathan.. LOL.. She didn't like my ex.. Always said there's "something about him"
For those that don't know, I went out with Jonathan years ago for a few years... We finished for years.. And are now back together...
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Serha
Silver Member
Oh man.....men are a different breed altogether!!!
Fortunately i live with a caveman who hasn't the energy to piss me off Of course it happens now and again but only when i'm losing it anyway. For the most part he goes out of his way not to bother me....anything for an easy life is his motto i'd say
Anyway - men think we are the odd/sensitive/paranoid/over-recting/moany ones but they want to have a look in the mirror sometimes! Everyone with a grain of salt I say
Fortunately i live with a caveman who hasn't the energy to piss me off
Of course it happens now and again but only when i'm losing it anyway. For the most part he goes out of his way not to bother me....anything for an easy life is his motto i'd say Anyway - men think we are the odd/sensitive/paranoid/over-recting/moany ones but they want to have a look in the mirror sometimes! Everyone with a grain of salt I say
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Kettlebells class DONE!!
Serha
Silver Member
Amen!!! How was it?
bulldogdaisy
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Dubchick81 said:
Whoo well done Hun,sorry to hear Jonathan is being a wotsit..all what you ladies have said about men on here are right!
Hope you feel better after doing your class :0)
And you are right to be upset about last night,I would have been!
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Yea not as bad as last time but still super tough!!!Serha said:
Thank u hunnieMrsm79 said:
Ah we're over it now.bulldogdaisy said:
Just back from surveyor meeting. So, the kitchen extension needs to b knocked! It's subsiding n pulling away from the house n splitting down the middle. That's ok tho, we'd planned pulling that down.
Needs new windows as its got single glazed aluminium. We knew that. So no shock.
Third n last BIG issue... It's got wood worm in the attic...
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Mrsm79 said:You sure it's just not been made with that wood that's made to look like its got woodworm or is that just wishful thinking?
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Structural surveyor dude said its wood worm. I wouldn't have a clue. But the house was built in the 30's r there abouts so it's not surprising (apparently)
There's a few small things then too but they're the main things n 2 of them we knew... It's got an A rated boiler installed so fairly new... Which is a fairly good one (again, apparently)
