Frances' New House, New Life, New Start Diary...

Dubchick81 said:
I've booked a half day from work..
So gona go to the graveyard to see my Mam (3years 7 months since she went to sleep), then gona go and get something YUM in for dinner and have a spotless house n hot dinner waiting for Jonathan when comes in from work... :)
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I hope today goes well for you hun :0)
 
bulldogdaisy said:
No worries,it's good to talk about things like that,me and my Mum used to joke loads about when she'd die that I'd put her walking stick in with her as she was forever misplacing it,death is part of life after all!
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I know but I feel like 'get over it already.. its been almost 4 years.. stop boring people with it'....
Not that I think I should be over losing her.. But I should go on less about it.. If that makes sense...
In fairness its only this 1 day of the month that it gets me.. And when I've been to the grave for about an hour.. Most of the time I'm "OK"
 
Dubchick81 said:
I know but I feel like 'get over it already.. its been almost 4 years.. stop boring people with it'....
Not that I think I should be over losing her.. But I should go on less about it.. If that makes sense...
In fairness its only this 1 day of the month that it gets me.. And when I've been to the grave for about an hour.. Most of the time I'm "OK"
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You never get over losing someone hun and especially not your Mam and people understand :0) I know what you mean bout being ok but certain dates will get to you,it's natural :0)
 
dont be silly theres no way you should think that!!! no one should ever "get over" losing anyone thats been in their life. honestly hun like Daisy said its a natural part of life, but dont think you are "going on about it" or anything of the sort! your human, you sound like your coping extremly well given the circumstances and you have every right to miss her etc.

like i said the other day! this site is so not just a weight loss site, share when your feeling down etc ANYTIME on here!!! thats what we are all here for!!

you helped me when i was down the other day so now im returning that :) xx hugs xx
 
bulldogdaisy said:
You never get over losing someone hun and especially not your Mam and people understand :0) I know what you mean bout being ok but certain dates will get to you,it's natural :0)
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emmaedes said:
dont be silly theres no way you should think that!!! no one should ever "get over" losing anyone thats been in their life. honestly hun like Daisy said its a natural part of life, but dont think you are "going on about it" or anything of the sort! your human, you sound like your coping extremly well given the circumstances and you have every right to miss her etc.

like i said the other day! this site is so not just a weight loss site, share when your feeling down etc ANYTIME on here!!! thats what we are all here for!!

you helped me when i was down the other day so now im returning that :) xx hugs xx
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Thanks ladies.. You are both stars.. MWAH.. xx
 
TMI ALERT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I hate my stupid body... This morning was WI as well know...
I've not been to the "loo" since breakfast time Sunday.... Weighed in this morning.. And now my body decides it needs to go!!!! Like eh, couldn't you have done that yesterday so I'd have weighed in less this morning!!!!!!! Grrrrrr :mad:
 
Dubchick81 said:
TMI ALERT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I hate my stupid body... This morning was WI as well know...
I've not been to the "loo" since breakfast time Sunday.... Weighed in this morning.. And now my body decides it needs to go!!!! Like eh, couldn't you have done that yesterday so I'd have weighed in less this morning!!!!!!! Grrrrrr :mad:
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Ergh! Why do our bodies do that to us!!
 
Dubchick81 said:
TMI ALERT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I hate my stupid body... This morning was WI as well know...
I've not been to the "loo" since breakfast time Sunday.... Weighed in this morning.. And now my body decides it needs to go!!!! Like eh, couldn't you have done that yesterday so I'd have weighed in less this morning!!!!!!! Grrrrrr :mad:
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Never tmi with us lol
 
OMG soooooooooooooooo annoying!!!! have an official WI after loo time :)! see if any dif :)!!! xxx
 
I'm the same I didnt go for about 3 days prior to WI.

I think collages are also fun we have a few that we've done, there of us all, the kids as baby's and random things like a condom shop on Amsterdam and stupid signs and stuff. Your mum would love the idea.
 
Hey Frances sorry I'm a bit late but I'm sorry to hear about ur mum, the collage frame sounds really nice!

Hope ur visit to the grave is ok and u don't get too sad! At least the cleaning and cooking will take ur mind off the sadness a bit! What do u have planned for tea? I was having Spag Bol but now I'm thinking tuna and Sweetcorn pasta bake?! Yummy I'm actually excited, it's sad isn't it!

U can tlk about ur mum on here everyday if u want, we won't mind, we just wanna b here to support u! I can't imagine how hard it was for u loosing her, and it's totally natural to wanna tlk about her lots!
 
sarah88 said:
Hey Frances sorry I'm a bit late but I'm sorry to hear about ur mum, the collage frame sounds really nice!

Hope ur visit to the grave is ok and u don't get too sad! At least the cleaning and cooking will take ur mind off the sadness a bit! What do u have planned for tea? I was having Spag Bol but now I'm thinking tuna and Sweetcorn pasta bake?! Yummy I'm actually excited, it's sad isn't it!

U can tlk about ur mum on here everyday if u want, we won't mind, we just wanna b here to support u! I can't imagine how hard it was for u loosing her, and it's totally natural to wanna tlk about her lots!
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I sometimes get excited about what I'm going to cook! Your dinner sounds nice Sarah :0)
 
bulldogdaisy said:
I sometimes get excited about what I'm going to cook! Your dinner sounds nice Sarah :0)
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It's u that gave me the idea so Thankyou!
 
Ah hon you aren't "going on about it".. you have every right to still feel sad about losing your Mum - it must have been very hard for you. It's hard to lose anyone but Mums are so close to us from when we're born that it's even harder. I think the collage is a lovely idea by the way - I bet your Mum would love that!
And anyway... I'm always going on about how bad I'm feeling and you're ALWAYS there to try and pick me back up again - so don't be feeling you can't do the same sometimes if you're feeling down too xxx

Don't worry about TMI - I'm always going on about my toilet habits on here it seems. I went to the loo when I got to work which was really annoying cuz I was like "I might've weighed a bit less argh!" LOL. Hopefully next week is a good week - least you know your "gain" is probs just food and bloat too!?! X
 
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