bulldogdaisy
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Dubchick81 said:
Lol Awww thank you,goodness knows what thrilling stuff we have over here that you guys don't have ;0)
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Lol Awww thank you,goodness knows what thrilling stuff we have over here that you guys don't have ;0)
bulldogdaisy
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azwethinkweiz said:Sooo maaaany Sarahs lol
Let's just all have some King crisps and forget our troubles
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Lol indeedy ;0)
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Ha imagine.. i think I'd die from shock!!
I have told him I am doing NO cleaning for the rest of the week.. Am sick of cleaning while he sits on his skinny lazy arse!
I will stick to this promise if it kills me!!
PS.. All will power needed today..
There is a MAHOOSIVE bar of Dairy Milk in the kitchen for all to help themselves to...
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
You have Asda.. So a cart load of Asda food will do
lol
bulldogdaisy
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Dubchick81 said:You have Asda.. So a cart load of Asda food will do
Lol,Thats that sorted ;0)
bulldogdaisy
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Dubchick81 said:
As you both work then there is no harm in sharing the housework,when Jon is off Uni I get him to help out! Eek bout the dairy milk! You can ignore it,you are having a lovely meal cooked for you tonight remember !? ;0)
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Ha ha ha.. yes I am. Aren't i?! lol
He has done NO cleaning at all since we moved in.. Excluding Saturday when he done the kitchen but that was only coz we were having people over..
Last night I cooked dinner.. Hoovered the stairs.. Mopped ALL the floors.. Got in some shopping.. Washed down all the counters.. Tidied crap away that's been lying around since Sunday coz we were too hungover to do anything..
And he done he dishes!!!!! How is that fair??!!! So I'm doing NOTHING for the week.. I told him last week also seen as I'd cooked every day last week, it was his week to cook.. But I'll be living on cheese n ham toasties if I stick to that lol
bulldogdaisy
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Dubchick81 said:
Hmm either a rota or what me and the OH do is decide who does what,like he does the bins,cooks Sunday mainly and sometimes Saturday,washes up if i nag/ask on the day i see my family.If he isn't at Uni we often spilt the other housework on the day the flat gets blitzed which is a tuesday(no wonder he is at Uni)lol like I dust,clean the bathroom and mop the floor while he washes up and hoovers.Make a plan now cos once you let them get their feet under the table it's harder to shift them lol
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
I know. This is why I've told him I done it all last week and its only fair he does it this week.. Things is.. If its not cleaned to "my kinda clean" I'll just take over n thro him outta the room.. and I really don't want to do that coz he'll get comfortable and think "oh yea this is great.. I do it badly n she'll take over!"
Like, I like cleaning so I don't mind most of the time.. But I think its only fair he pulls his weight ya kno.. I don't want to start off being like "ah its grand i'll do it" and then in 6 months have a massive rowe about him being a lazy pig ya kno
Tho in saying all of this.. he will have to do the back garden which is a tough job.. Well not really but for me it would be.. Its just grass cutting but that lawn mower is fricken heavy!!! lol
bulldogdaisy
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Dubchick81 said:
I just tell Jon he needs to do it a certain way next time if he does it wrong lol.Am sure you and Jonathan will sort it out,it's still fairly new to you both just moving in together.
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
I kno yea.. he's still testing the waters to see what he can get away with..
Yesterday the bedroom floor was COVERED with him clothes.. In fairness there was some of mine too.. So I picked up all mine and put them away/in the wash.. And picked up all of his, placed them in a pile on his bed and left them!
He was like "eh, where did that pile of stuff come from on the bed? Is that my washing?"
I said "No, it yer crap off the floor to do with as you please.. How would your washing get there? Does it have legs? Coz I sure as hell won't be doing it for ya" He giggled nervously unsure if I was serious or not... He'll soon learn... lol
bulldogdaisy
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Dubchick81 said:
Haha too right,they say we nag but like I say to Jon,if you did it we wouldn't have to nag!!! Like when he gets home later there's a couple of letters and bits of his floating around in the front room and bedroom that he can tidy up! If he winds me up or says I do nothing etc then I'm quick to remind him that he can do his own lunch,dinners,washing etc lol.If he really upsets me then I've gotten him to do his own lunch or dinner as I begrudge cooking for him then lol
emmaedes
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yer if you arent on here tomorrow then we know if happened!!! lol
uh oh.............resist the chocolate!!!! xx
sarah88
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I will admit my oh used to tidy a fair bit but recently I've been doing everything!
Dog walking
Dishes/dishwasher
Washing
Cleaning
Bath/bed for Elisha
Reading with Elisha
His/elishas lunch
Cooking
Tidying
There's so much I can't remember it all, his reason is he works 8 hours a day!? I work thurs and fri and still do everything! It has to b hoovered here daily cause of the dog hair!
He does occasionally do the washing!
Prob is he's so used to his mum cleaning and tidying up after him when he lived there
Dog walking
Dishes/dishwasher
Washing
Cleaning
Bath/bed for Elisha
Reading with Elisha
His/elishas lunch
Cooking
Tidying
There's so much I can't remember it all, his reason is he works 8 hours a day!? I work thurs and fri and still do everything! It has to b hoovered here daily cause of the dog hair!
He does occasionally do the washing!
Prob is he's so used to his mum cleaning and tidying up after him when he lived there
bulldogdaisy
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I tell you,a lot of mums(more old school Mums)just don't do their sons any favours!
bulldogdaisy
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sarah88 said:
Some help isn't asking too much though as I'm sure OH gets to chill in the evening while you are still working!
emmaedes
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haha this is such a Steve quote "is this my washing"............erm " is that a pig flying past the window......NO so NO its not your washing!!" just make him do his share, and if he does it crap dont take over just do it again when he's out or something! remember, teach him to be good not take over cos he is doing it bad
xxx
bulldogdaisy
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sarah88 said:
Hmm how bout asking if he wouldn't mind helping out one night a week? Say Friday when you've been out working anyhow?!
bulldogdaisy
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And dog walking together :0)
