Hi Both,
Thank you so much for your comments, (((hugs))) back to you as I really really appreciate your support. I know I'm like a broken record at times but yep at least I am still here (and thats mostly to do with your support)! I managed to drag myself to a body balance class last night, which made me feel a bit better.
Beegee, maybe I am overthinking a bit. To be honest I've tried planning in everything including snacks but I didnt always plan like this.....I used to plan most of my main meals and the rest fell into place. I think large meals are definitely the way to go, but I think I probably have large meals at the moment anyway. Maybe I'll try just main meal planning and thinking about food less. You're right the more you think about it, definitely the more you want of it! Thank you for the positive vibes, they are really appreciated I'm sending some to you too
Teresa, I thought you'd been hiding again Dont worry if you cant do the self analysis, I'll do it for you - lol! Seriously though, I think being kind to yourself is one of the best things you can do (I mean we can do!). Things do seem much better when you can be your own friend and be nice to yourself, then the physcological tellings off dont happen and therefore dont trigger the binge cycle. A paper diary is a great help as its all there in black and white, I may copy this strategy and post on here every few days to say what I've had, rather than what I'm planning to have. I too think I suffer from wanting to be miss perfect and thats why its even more difficult when we fall off plan. Perhaps we need to reinvent miss perfect and let her be less of a controlling/ all or nothing girl That would be more achievable. Wow, I bet you cant wait for your time off!
I'm probably heading to class tonight, I remember my consultant saying that this week would be a completely new starter! The last thing she needs is the weigh in lady going awol !!!
Thanks again both for being so lovely and helpful xxx
Thank you so much for your comments, (((hugs))) back to you as I really really appreciate your support. I know I'm like a broken record at times but yep at least I am still here (and thats mostly to do with your support)! I managed to drag myself to a body balance class last night, which made me feel a bit better.
Beegee, maybe I am overthinking a bit. To be honest I've tried planning in everything including snacks but I didnt always plan like this.....I used to plan most of my main meals and the rest fell into place. I think large meals are definitely the way to go, but I think I probably have large meals at the moment anyway. Maybe I'll try just main meal planning and thinking about food less. You're right the more you think about it, definitely the more you want of it! Thank you for the positive vibes, they are really appreciated I'm sending some to you too
Teresa, I thought you'd been hiding again Dont worry if you cant do the self analysis, I'll do it for you - lol! Seriously though, I think being kind to yourself is one of the best things you can do (I mean we can do!). Things do seem much better when you can be your own friend and be nice to yourself, then the physcological tellings off dont happen and therefore dont trigger the binge cycle. A paper diary is a great help as its all there in black and white, I may copy this strategy and post on here every few days to say what I've had, rather than what I'm planning to have. I too think I suffer from wanting to be miss perfect and thats why its even more difficult when we fall off plan. Perhaps we need to reinvent miss perfect and let her be less of a controlling/ all or nothing girl That would be more achievable. Wow, I bet you cant wait for your time off!
I'm probably heading to class tonight, I remember my consultant saying that this week would be a completely new starter! The last thing she needs is the weigh in lady going awol !!!
Thanks again both for being so lovely and helpful xxx