Hoping weight loss finds me a husband diary!!
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kimmi1982
serial binger
eekthehippo said:Oh hun, there's no need to beat yourself up for the extra bar - I actually think you did really well. Thin people get hungry and eat something, but they just eat something sensible and small until they are satisfied which is just what you did. Well, I imagine they do - its been so long since I was a thin person myself!!
If you were an un-cured binger you would have been round the shop for a sandwich/pizza/curry and blown it all, so WELL DONE!!
Love your doggy - I spoil mine rotten
Thanks eek, I know the extra bar wasn't a huge blow out but I just felt so guilty!! Silly really but I want to lose this weight so badly this time!! Doesn't help that the scales aren't moving this week- feel really disheartened!! I was actually one pound heavier this morning!!! Grrrrr!! X
kimmi1982
serial binger
Another good day- been so busy at work haven't had time to think about food! 3 shakes done, 1.5 litres of water and 4 coffees!! Am off to the cinema tonight to get me out the house so I can't reach for the cereal, bars, or anything else I could possibly eat!!
Have a good Friday evening fellow minimins!! X x
Have a good Friday evening fellow minimins!! X x
MinnieMel
Why Be Normal?
Hi Kimmi --
What did you see? My DH and I wanted to go and see "Convicted" but it is no longer showing locally. Now to wait for the DVD.
I considered "The Black Swan" but then the DS said he might go out -- so, as I was not thrilled with the BS option (not in the mood for it) -- I told him that he was no longer on standby to watch his sister.
So, DH is playing with the Kindle my dad sent my daughter for Christmas (it just arrived -- that is how he is) and trying to put some books she'd like on it. I'm on MM, FB and thinking about taking a long hot bath and reading my book (I need to finish asap).
MM
What did you see? My DH and I wanted to go and see "Convicted" but it is no longer showing locally. Now to wait for the DVD.
I considered "The Black Swan" but then the DS said he might go out -- so, as I was not thrilled with the BS option (not in the mood for it) -- I told him that he was no longer on standby to watch his sister.
So, DH is playing with the Kindle my dad sent my daughter for Christmas (it just arrived -- that is how he is) and trying to put some books she'd like on it. I'm on MM, FB and thinking about taking a long hot bath and reading my book (I need to finish asap).
MM
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kimmi1982
serial binger
I went to see the black swan but my ex turned up 15 mins later than arranged and it was full by the time we got to the desk!! One of the reasons our relationship never worked - his punctuality still irritates me!!! We both have unlimited cinema passes so still meet up at least once a week to see a film! Going to see black swan on Monday now!! X
Surfhunny
Laugh in the face of food
kimmi1982 said:
God Kim that sounds exactly like me!!! I'm just trying to pluck up the courage to start dating again, I've been single for 13 looooong months now. Unfortunately there is a serious lack of halfway decent men in my area. All the great ones I meet are married
And the ones on match, dating direct etc are the same ones that were on before I met my ex.... Maybe some day my prince will come
MinnieMel
Why Be Normal?
Hi Kimmie and Sal --
I wish I could offer some advice on the matter, but I have been married for so long (24 years and we've been a couple for over 26), that I have no idea how people go about meeting each other these days. I guess it would be nice if someone "fixed you up" -- then the person has been kind of "vetted" for you.
I met my DH at work. I fixed him up with the younger sister (at his request: he'd bumped into us out together and I introduced them). Note: at the time I was "taken". It was the worse date of either one of them's lives. LOL
He and I were co-workers who became friends, and after several "friendly" outings (usually with other co-workers) -- as I was recently single -- it dawned on us that maybe we could be more than friends. He is still my best friend, but the "more than" has worked for the last 26 years.
MM
I wish I could offer some advice on the matter, but I have been married for so long (24 years and we've been a couple for over 26), that I have no idea how people go about meeting each other these days. I guess it would be nice if someone "fixed you up" -- then the person has been kind of "vetted" for you.
I met my DH at work. I fixed him up with the younger sister (at his request: he'd bumped into us out together and I introduced them). Note: at the time I was "taken". It was the worse date of either one of them's lives. LOL
He and I were co-workers who became friends, and after several "friendly" outings (usually with other co-workers) -- as I was recently single -- it dawned on us that maybe we could be more than friends. He is still my best friend, but the "more than" has worked for the last 26 years.
MM
kimmi1982
serial binger
Well it's 2am and I'm back after a night out on the town with the girlies!! I picked a leopardskin dress and felt pretty good in it-got a few compliments so was pretty happy! I've got a way to go to be the weight I need to be but am starting to feel a little more confident!
Really surprised I didn't cheat today- losing weight is far more important than a booZy night out! X
Really surprised I didn't cheat today- losing weight is far more important than a booZy night out! X
great things
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go kimmi! bet you looked 'awesome'!
meeting hubby's..... i met paul online. dating direct surf.... you usually meet people through work though. my line of work primary school teaching there's loads of female staff and very little male totty! lol
there's loads of docs at JC surf surely they'll be ok. mind the hours they work are ridiculous. i wouldn't like to be mr P's wife. he practically lives at the hospital. 24/7!
if you go out clubbing you only meet, on most occasions, right drop outs in teesside i might add.
bet you looked 'awesome'!meeting hubby's..... i met paul online. dating direct surf.... you usually meet people through work though. my line of work primary school teaching there's loads of female staff and very little male totty! lol
there's loads of docs at JC surf surely they'll be ok. mind the hours they work are ridiculous. i wouldn't like to be mr P's wife. he practically lives at the hospital. 24/7!
if you go out clubbing you only meet, on most occasions, right drop outs in teesside i might add.
kimmi1982
serial binger
I'm a Physio and all of my team are female also, we work in the community so often work alone so definetly no male totty there!!
I'm really not into clubbing, only went last night to celebrate a friends birthday and I had a Uni friend staying. Was nice to be the sobar one and noticed most of them men were divorced 50 year olds or young uns!! At that point I realised I am utterly boring and would rather be at the cinema or out for a meal or on the sofa!! My clubbing days are over!!!
Weighed in this morning and only 2 pounds lost this week- weigh in tomorrow morning! 2 pounds means I'll be out of the 200lbs bracket but another 2 needed to get into the 13s!
4 weeks to Florida!! Xx
I'm really not into clubbing, only went last night to celebrate a friends birthday and I had a Uni friend staying. Was nice to be the sobar one and noticed most of them men were divorced 50 year olds or young uns!! At that point I realised I am utterly boring and would rather be at the cinema or out for a meal or on the sofa!! My clubbing days are over!!!
Weighed in this morning and only 2 pounds lost this week- weigh in tomorrow morning! 2 pounds means I'll be out of the 200lbs bracket but another 2 needed to get into the 13s!
4 weeks to Florida!! Xx
suzykate37
Full Member
Hi, Im new to the forum, hope you dont mind me posting. Sounds like you are doing a great job. I was single for a long time and like yourself found it hard to meet new/decent men in my area (all my friends are married & have children) & i eventually plucked up the courage and went on a website called "Plenty of Fish" , its completely free so i thought i have nothing to lose.
11 months on i am now engaged and living with a guy i met on there...i now its not for everyone but maybe worth a try?
11 months on i am now engaged and living with a guy i met on there...i now its not for everyone but maybe worth a try?
MinnieMel
Why Be Normal?
Hi Sal --
That leopard stuff is very hot right now -- and I am sure you looked hot in it! I am glad you fun... even if you were the DD. I used to find it hard being the DD because I did not like being the only sober one in a group. And, it is almost as if it is a extension of my "mom persona". I make sure no one makes too big an A%$ out of themselves, gets sick, and I get them home safely. So, it is not something I volunteer to do often -- I am cinema, (used to be) meal out, theatre trip, etc. kind of woman these days, too.
MM
That leopard stuff is very hot right now -- and I am sure you looked hot in it! I am glad you fun... even if you were the DD. I used to find it hard being the DD because I did not like being the only sober one in a group. And, it is almost as if it is a extension of my "mom persona". I make sure no one makes too big an A%$ out of themselves, gets sick, and I get them home safely. So, it is not something I volunteer to do often -- I am cinema, (used to be) meal out, theatre trip, etc. kind of woman these days, too.
MM
kimmi1982
serial binger
Hey girls, thanks for the information!! I have tried plenty of fish and had a few dates from there but fond because it's free there's many men who aren't that serious and just playing about!! Also got some proper wierdos!!
I'm currently on match but have been for some time and have dated a lot of people from the local area! I guess I'm picky or just pick people I don't really fancy because I don't feel confident myself! Just concentrating on me first!
Haven't had the best day today, not hopeful about weigh in tomorrow xx
I'm currently on match but have been for some time and have dated a lot of people from the local area! I guess I'm picky or just pick people I don't really fancy because I don't feel confident myself! Just concentrating on me first!
Haven't had the best day today, not hopeful about weigh in tomorrow xx
cornishkez
Gold Member
Good luck for tomorrow!
cornishkez
Gold Member
Well done for being so positive! A small one this week means you could have a huge one next week!
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