Was having a good day at work until stupid church warden came in. Grr. Apparently she has asked the vicar to prioritise my work for me. Said "well you were asked to!" When I said I hadn't spoken to st petrocks about what they'd like from us for harvest. Had to tell her I asked them too early last year and they couldn't give me lists until about September. She came out with some other **** and I just smiled and said yes. Oh I wanted to tell her to stfu. Taking a Friday off isnt good because of the run up to Sunday. Well hooty toot I had a wedding on Saturday too but it was all sorted before i took the day off. Any fancy that I prioritised it myself! And apparently talking to people isn't right, I must say hello then tell them I must do my work. Must remember not to walk the 80+ year old down the path to her taxi in a thunder storm. Must tell her I have work to do. Must tell the bereaved woman arranging flowers for her husband's funeral that it sucks she needs someone to sit with her, I have work to do. Sorry old lady who's done loads for the church who has bad knees not responding to treatment, can't get out or do much, is getting depressed and counts getting groceries as a social event, who won't ask for help, I can't chat to you for 20 minutes after you have made the effort to come in to do the church laundry, I have to do my work. Oh and sorry vicar, I know you've had an argument with the curate and you are visibly upset, but my job is only to rearrange the rota to make sure the curate's slots are covered, not anything else. Silly woman doesn't realise part of my job is pastoral. Hence needing to be crb checked. She's no idea of the work I do and tells me that everything is wrong and not good enough. Well I sorted 3 funerals with no vicar, no wardens, pa people all working, on holiday or minding grandchildren, my organist being on holiday until today and no treasurer to pay them all. And you know what? I got it all sorted. First funeral is going on now second is tomorrow morning. I've been organising the finances coming in so that the treasurer can order them easily when he got back. As well as evrrything else. And, forgive me, taking ONE day off. Asshat.
And breathe!