Wow, well done! Really impressive results. I'm usually the same, actually: I sts or lose on holiday even though I eat what I like, probably because I'm being active and also not obsessing about food all the time.
My hubby hates me dieting too, although he tries to be supportive. He says that I should just exercise more and eat normally (men!) but can't understand that what keeps him in shape won't necessarily work for me. But I agree it is difficult and impractical to follow completely separate diets at home.
Good luck, and keep us posted!
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