I cant link cause I'm new I can't view my own profile so see all my threads. Basically he thinks i'm fat and thus as a result unattractive, and so I'm going to stay here 3 weeks whilst doing LT then leave him when I'm skinnier - well that's the plan anyway! But although he is a twat (no not you! LOL) he is one of those men who will always think over a size 10 is fat - it's just his way, but, I actually thought he might have a bit of sense not to actually tell me that but no, so if anything he's not a twat just bl**dy stupid!!!