lyndzi - dont worry about it, cd should be last on the list right now. i came off plan for a month (it wasnt planned) and maintained, just ate whati wanted but smaller portions and most importantly kept up with the water drinking. i think this made me less hungry and helped me digest food better. Trust me, as long as you do not start binging you wont gain, and if you do you can lose it when you come back to cd. i totally understand why you have no appetite at the moment, but dont give cd another thought until you have grieved properly for your loss and feel better physically.
as for comfort food, well my comfort food is granary toast and poached egg, or a skinny latte so not all comfort food is bad for you. make some good choices over the next few days and then you know when you will be ready to come back.