Great comment cate. "Management by fact". Now there is a management theory I used to use all the time when faced with a problem in the workplace and there is no reason why I shouldn't be able to apply it to my weight problem.
the facts are
i was 14st 7lbs
i want to be 9st 13lbs
i needed to lose 4st 8lbs to get to goal
if I agree exante know better than me and I stop trying to fight it, I will lose this weight in 4.5 months.
i started early May, therefore, if I stick to plan, I should be at goal mid to late September 14. Not before, not after.
i have already lost 1 stone and despite blips, I have maintained this, therefore, I am still on target.
I now need to lose 3 st 8lbs to get to goal.
i can do this by staying on plan. If I fall off, I will get straight back on.
i will do this one day at a time.
feeling more positive. Thanks cate.