Love them all! WOW - you are going for a big expensive wedding then. I'm just too tight to part with that kind of cash (and have no family help).
Yes - there are loads of details you have missed out
. How many bridesmaids, menu, what time, evening do, number of guests, favours, cars....
Hahahaha!!!!! I didn't intend for it to be a massive thing - but i want the photos to be amazing (I'm a huge fan of photos as mementos for posterity etc) and i only plan on getting married once, and want it to be memorable!!!! I do, however, have a lot of family to help, plus i'll be saving for a good few years, as will my folks, and my OH is a saver by nature, so we'll figure it out!! I'm sure OH will rein me in a bit when he sees my plans!! Hahaha!! I'm still thoroughly chuffed that i found a beautiful Catholic Church!!!! It was my quest for a long time!!!
To answers your questions (which made me giggle!!)
I have no idea how many bridesmaids!! My best friend will definintely be maid of honour, and i have 3 nieces and 2 god-daughters which are all possibiities, but it depends on when the wedding is - if it isn't for a few years, i could have more nieces!!!!
My son will definitely be pageboy, and most likely my 2 nephews!!
Ushers will be my brother, my male best mate and either Tom's brother or best friend. The Best Man will be either Toms best friend or brother (It's a little hard to work out, cos when doing the table plan, the best man sits at the top table, but as his gf isn't bridesmaid, she can't sit with him, so would be better/more convenient if it were his brother!! (But that's entirely OH's choice!)
No idea what time the wedding will be, but most likely an afternoon, although with it having to be a Catholic Mass, i'm almost certain it's a morning ceremony. But will find that out at the time!! Either way, will work it out!!!
No idea about the menu - both venues have their own catering, with menu tasting sessions thrown in, so will do that. But most likely traditional fare (Soup to start, roast for main, chessecake or ice cream to finish, with coffees and mints)
Current guest list is 58 to daytime, and about 120 to evening, but i'm remembering people to add all the time!!! (And yes, you're on the list!! haha!)
No idea about favours yet - thats one thing i've not though about!! We both love vintage/retro stuff, my OH loves trains, I love shabby chic stuff, and a week after meeting we played the "game of life" and was "married" off as there were too many players, so had to play as a team....so would like some kinda "game" theme, perhaps dice chocolates or monopoly money place cards or something "fun". (Which, incidentally, is where the wedding date comes from!! I thought it would be nice for our Real wedding day to be on the day of our game wedding day - which gives us either Sat 12th July 2014, or 2025!!!! So i'm hoping the first!! Failing that, i'll have to not have that date!!!:sigh
And regarding the car - i have no idea!! That's OH's domain entirely!! Will be something old and classic, without a doubt!!!! xxxxxx
