ive had the same problem this weekend, it was my daughters 21st and my 39th birthday and my friends went on and on and on about me not wanting to eat or drink, i felt so under pressure when one of my friends said "oh come on, have a drink for f**ks sake, if you dont drink then the rest of us are going to have a boring night!" i was guttted and felt terrible so i ended up having a glass of rose and 3 vodka and slimline tonics just to please everyone else! the next day i was so down that i ended up binging on gourmet jelly beans!! i know its my own fault and im back on it 1oo% today and ive vowed that im never gonna let my friends or family make me feel like that again, if they are my true friends they would understand and not pressure me!! rant over!! sorry folks!! weigh in tomorrow and im now dreading it!! :cry: