ProPoints Nessa's pro points diary

bulldogdaisy said:
Aww Hun,I dunno why people have to lie and be awkward like that! I understand where you are coming from with him and the CSA as my best friend has the same problem with her ex! I never get the point of having the kiddies if you're just not interested in them! Least you are letting Ryan find out for himself what his Dad is like,he will see it with his own eyes as he gets older!
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See that's my dilemma, Ryan adores his dad and I could never stop him seeing him because it would break his heart so I just have to let the ex get away with being a complete arsehole grr.
But you are right one day Ryan will see his true colours and will make his own mind up. Xx
 
nessa123 said:
See that's my dilemma, Ryan adores his dad and I could never stop him seeing him because it would break his heart so I just have to let the ex get away with being a complete arsehole grr.
But you are right one day Ryan will see his true colours and will make his own mind up. Xx
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Just stay strong hun,Ryan knows what good parents and sister he has at home and at least he is sheltered from the crappy side right now!
 
bulldogdaisy said:
Just stay strong hun,Ryan knows what good parents and sister he has at home and at least he is sheltered from the crappy side right now!
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Thanks Hun.
Hubby went through it all with his dad so he is a great support and also my mummy in-law went through what I'm going through. It's just tough and exhausting at times!! The things he says and the things he does is just unbelievable yet he would argue with anyone until he was blue in the face that he is an amazing father!!! He has a 2 and a half year old son he has seen twice and an 8 year old daughter he has seen maybe 3 times in the last 6 years!!
 
nessa123 said:
Well I originally had the photo shoot booked for Sunday morning and told him I need Ryan back on the Saturday but he told me he had tickets booked for a theme park on Saturday and there was no way he could change them so I had to mess the photographer about and change if to 4pm so we could pick Ryan up on Sunday morning. Turns out he never actually had the tickets booked and they went there on the Friday!!
And on top of that he hasn't posted CSA his wage slips which he should of done weeks ago that way they can calculate what his payments should be based on his earnings and the money would get deducted straight from his wages at the moment he phones up and makes a payment using his debit card he is supposed to do it on payday every week well at the moment he goes weeks without paying it and just pays what ever he wants it's a complete joke. He has 3 kids by 3 differant woman and Ryan is the only one he see's and that's because I'm too ****ing soft for my own good!!!
Sorry!! Rant over!! It's my turn to rant tonight Tara lol
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It better that we take it in turns!!! ;)

He sounds like a right git! My best mates ex is very much like this. He gets aggressive and scary with it. She's trying to change the kids names and get him to sign over parental right. My that he ever exercises them!!! Only hen he has a new gf he wants to show off too!!!

Some blokes are complete idiots. I'm so sorry you're going through this!! Stay strong!!! At least you are looking out for Ryan, he's clearly not! Xx
 
Food update for yesterday and today

Monday 13th August 2012
Week 14 day 3

Breakfast
Honey Cheerios no milk 3pp
Orange 0pp

Lunch
I had a bit before swimming and a bit after!!

Dairylea dunker 3pp
Quavers 2pp
Low fat egg and cress sandwich 8pp
Mini bag hobnobs 5pp

Dinner
Mushrooms 0pp
Chicken 3pp
Tomato purée 0pp
Noodles 6pp
Onion 0pp
Garlic and herb light Philly 3pp

100g yoomoo 3pp
Snickers (1 half of a duo 6pp)
Mini milk 2pp

44pp

44/44pp dailies used. 41 weeklies remaining


Today Tuesday 14th August 2012
Week 14 day 4

Breakfast
Mini box honey shreddies no milk 4pp
Orange 0pp

Lunch
WW chicken and mushroom mash top pie 8pp

Dinner
WW sausage and mash meal 9pp
Carrots 0pp

100g triple chocolate ice cream 6pp

Party snacks
Jam doughnut 7pp
Cake 5pp (just to be safe)
Few crisps 2pp

Coffee 3pp

44pp used

44/44 dailies used. 41 weeklies remaining
 
sapphirestara said:
It better that we take it in turns!!! ;)

He sounds like a right git! My best mates ex is very much like this. He gets aggressive and scary with it. She's trying to change the kids names and get him to sign over parental right. My that he ever exercises them!!! Only hen he has a new gf he wants to show off too!!!

Some blokes are complete idiots. I'm so sorry you're going through this!! Stay strong!!! At least you are looking out for Ryan, he's clearly not! Xx
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My ex is exactly the same he gets aggressive too and his new g/f was in the car when he dropped Ryan back!! Making out to her he is the model father!!! Grr.

Thanks Hun. Your poor friend I know how she feels. Xx
 
Aww, Nessa sorry you've had a bit of a **** day. *hugs*
My OH has to pay his CSA and his ex won't even let him see his son. But that's a whole other rant lol. Dunno how your ex is getting away with it hun, but hope it all gets sorted out x
 
Jaly said:
Oooh! Yum :)

1 bag of mini hobnobs is only 3pp btw!

And the mini milks are probably only 1pp - what brand are they? :)
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Are they really only 3pp? Cool!!
It's an Iceland minimilk deffo 2pp xx
 
Jaly said:
Hmm. OK, done pro-point policing for now :p Sorry to hear that your ex is being a complete twat, he definitely doesnt deserve you!
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Lol I like your pro point policing you have more knowledge than my app it's great!! Xx
 
Aaaargghh! How frustrating for you that your ex is behaving like that! You can pat yourself on the back that you are doing the right thing by Ryan though, and as Daisy says he will see the truth for himself when he gets older. xxxx
 
moonwatcher said:
Aaaargghh! How frustrating for you that your ex is behaving like that! You can pat yourself on the back that you are doing the right thing by Ryan though, and as Daisy says he will see the truth for himself when he gets older. xxxx
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Thanks hun xxx
 
Very sad to say my brother was that D1CKHEAD when he and his wife split.. (He had an affair with a cheap skank half his age after more than 10 yrs of marriage n 3 kids with his wife!) Was always letting the kids down when he promised to bring them out.. But my sister in law was a dope and covered for him everytime.. Blamed herself on him not turning up (told the kids she told him now to come etc) and now the kids are none the wiser and idolise him and think their Mammy was the awful one stopping his seeing them.. My advice is this.. Although u obv don't want yer son hurt r upset, but don't cover for him. Obv don't argue r fight with yer ex in front of Ryan, but don't let him play on ur niceness and treat u like a fool either. Make him pay his way and on time n the FULL amount!! He's obv gotten away with treating women like mugs seen as he has 2 other kids but don't let him away with it...
Sorry u hav to go thru this.. What a knob! x
 
Dubchick81 said:
Very sad to say my brother was that D1CKHEAD when he and his wife split.. (He had an affair with a cheap skank half his age after more than 10 yrs of marriage n 3 kids with his wife!) Was always letting the kids down when he promised to bring them out.. But my sister in law was a dope and covered for him everytime.. Blamed herself on him not turning up (told the kids she told him now to come etc) and now the kids are none the wiser and idolise him and think their Mammy was the awful one stopping his seeing them.. My advice is this.. Although u obv don't want yer son hurt r upset, but don't cover for him. Obv don't argue r fight with yer ex in front of Ryan, but don't let him play on ur niceness and treat u like a fool either. Make him pay his way and on time n the FULL amount!! He's obv gotten away with treating women like mugs seen as he has 2 other kids but don't let him away with it...
Sorry u hav to go thru this.. What a knob! x
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Thankyou for sharing hun. And ur right I need to stop letting him walk all over me when he knows I'm a soft touch. Xx
 
Dubchick81 said:
Very sad to say my brother was that D1CKHEAD when he and his wife split.. (He had an affair with a cheap skank half his age after more than 10 yrs of marriage n 3 kids with his wife!) Was always letting the kids down when he promised to bring them out.. But my sister in law was a dope and covered for him everytime.. Blamed herself on him not turning up (told the kids she told him now to come etc) and now the kids are none the wiser and idolise him and think their Mammy was the awful one stopping his seeing them.. My advice is this.. Although u obv don't want yer son hurt r upset, but don't cover for him. Obv don't argue r fight with yer ex in front of Ryan, but don't let him play on ur niceness and treat u like a fool either. Make him pay his way and on time n the FULL amount!! He's obv gotten away with treating women like mugs seen as he has 2 other kids but don't let him away with it...
Sorry u hav to go thru this.. What a knob! x
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This sounds EXACTLY like my best friend. He was a "taxi driver" read code for picking up lasses who were barely legal. YUK.
 
nessa123 said:
My ex is exactly the same he gets aggressive too and his new g/f was in the car when he dropped Ryan back!! Making out to her he is the model father!!! Grr.

Thanks Hun. Your poor friend I know how she feels. Xx
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Vile. Just vile. I wonder where these men get off!
 
Hey everyone hope you are all ok.
On my diary app I set my goal weight at 13st 4lb (exactly 10 stone loss) by my 30th birthday next year. Obviously I would probably like to be lighter than 13st 4lb eventually but 10 stone is a nice solid number and I can worry about that WHEN I get there!!
But ive decided I'm going to break it down and I've set my first goal weight for the 22nd of december this year I want to be in the 17's!! 17st 13lb would be fine lol.
Just realised I'm half way there! I've lost 2st 10lb and I need to lose 2st 9lb to get that first target. I've been doing weight watchers for 13 weeks now and I have 19 weeks until my first goal date so I'm thinking it might actually be possible!!
I need to lose on average 1.9lb a week I know that I may not lose that much each week and I may not meet my target but I need something to keep me focused putting pressure on myself spurs me on If I just say oh well if I hit my target then great but if I don't never mind then I relax more which means I'm more likely to fall off the wagon.
Sorry for the ramble but I spent all evening pulling my pj bottoms up and all day pulling my jeans up and I think it's suddenly sinking in that I'm actually doing this and it's working and I'm losing weight!! I'm actually feeling a little emotional!! Lol what am I like a long way to go yet!! Xxx
 
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