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[~nix~]

Ooohhh no.....
Panic...mother in law has asked us for tea tomorrow

She hates these diets gives me hell if she knows im doing it

If i go i will have to eat its a full roast dinner... The monster in law is the tyoe of woman that if she sees something she doesnt like/ aprove of then she never shuts up about it..nagging, having digs until you cave in...

Advice please... Im not sure i can tell her..i may have to have a token slice of meat an spoon of vegies

Its pathetic of me at 44 to hide what im doing for my woman.but she lives in the next village down.and i will never hear the end of it..


If my mum was still alive shed have been so supportive if me...its a shame

Nik
Xx

 

[jael001]

ugh tell her you've got an upset stomach or something like that, maybe fake going to the loo and throwing up lol. That's all I've got, sorry. I'm sorry but I can't stand people who force their opinions on others, especially when it's something you're doing to improve your life.

 

[~nix~]

Oooh i know jael....

I just dont wanna go..but i cant stop al and the kids going....

One another point 1.75 off yesterday im into the 5s woop woop
15.13 this morning...

Ooh ive a feeling its gonna be a good loss week.....

Im hoping for a big one

( weight loss cheered me up a lil bit )

Nik

 

[jael001]

Oooh i know jael....

I just dont wanna go..but i cant stop al and the kids going....

One another point 1.75 off yesterday im into the 5s woop woop
15.13 this morning...

Ooh ive a feeling its gonna be a good loss week.....

Im hoping for a big one

( weight loss cheered me up a lil bit )

Nik

I'm so jealous right now, I want to be in the 15s too, I'm so close but not quite there yet! Well done on your loss though, you're doing so well and in such a short space of time too.

 

[~nix~]

Hun...once you go...im sure you will be in the 15s with me.....for next WI



Nik

 

[notsoskinnymarge]

Aww nikki thats not so good about your mother in law.
You dont have to justify what you are eating or not eating to anyone, so just make it a WS day and she will be none the wiser

 

[Mere]

Ooohhh no.....
Panic...mother in law has asked us for tea tomorrow

She hates these diets gives me hell if she knows im doing it

If i go i will have to eat its a full roast dinner... The monster in law is the tyoe of woman that if she sees something she doesnt like/ aprove of then she never shuts up about it..nagging, having digs until you cave in...

Advice please... Im not sure i can tell her..i may have to have a token slice of meat an spoon of vegies

Its pathetic of me at 44 to hide what im doing for my woman.but she lives in the next village down.and i will never hear the end of it..


If my mum was still alive shed have been so supportive if me...its a shame

Nik
Xx

I had a mother-in-law like yours I could never do anything right in her eyes after all I had stolen her son away from her!
I think your own idea of having a little bit of meat and some veg is a good idea and what I would have done. You will probably find that really fills you up anyway.
If there is dessert I would pass on it and just say you are trying to lose a little weight for summer. She is bound to notice you getting slimer anyway.
Goood luck whatever you decide.
Mere x

 

[~nix~]

I plan to go and tell her ive got a bit of a dicky stomach. But tell her i will have a slice of meat and a spoon of veg just to say ive eaten and apease her... And to tell her im strict dieting for my holidays, so im passing on desert ..but not tell her what in case she starts with her preatching and whining....

Its 4 pm..so if i have porridge late morning then a soup about 3 pm i wont be to hungry...

Id hate to sit at a table with my stomach rumbling and say im fine im not hungry >.<

Nik

Xx

 

[angelupnorth]

Oooh i know jael....

I just dont wanna go..but i cant stop al and the kids going....

One another point 1.75 off yesterday im into the 5s woop woop
15.13 this morning...

Ooh ive a feeling its gonna be a good loss week.....

Im hoping for a big one

( weight loss cheered me up a lil bit )

Nik

Hi there NIk,

I've just read your diary from start to now and wowza your doing flipping fab

How you done so well in Dublin is amazing and shows us all it can be done.

My downfall is always my social activities but reading your diary has reassured me it can be done, fingers crossed I can be as good as you as I have several trips in the next few months.

Keep up the good work and I can't wait to read more x

 

[~nix~]

Aaw thanks hun....

It took some restraining for me tot to pig out on sweet stuff..but i realised that id have to come off plan..and i decided that if i was good for 90% of the day i could have a lil drink or share a desert with my OH..


Good luck with your events..i would have folded if it hadnt been for the support i got from these forums...posting my food and fessing my sins here....

And knowing that small indescretions can be forgiven... And your welcomed home on the forums by people who understand and care


Stay strong
Keep movin on.....

Nik
Xx

 

[angelupnorth]

Aaw thanks hun....

It took some restraining for me tot to pig out on sweet stuff..but i realised that id have to come off plan..and i decided that if i was good for 90% of the day i could have a lil drink or share a desert with my OH..

Good luck with your events..i would have folded if it hadnt been for the support i got from these forums...posting my food and fessing my sins here....

And knowing that small indescretions can be forgiven... And your welcomed home on the forums by people who understand and care

Stay strong
Keep movin on.....

Nik
Xx

Thanks I'm usually over on the Cambridge boards but have defected x

 

[notsoskinnymarge]

Nikki, if you tell her you have a dickie tum, you wont need to tell her anything else not to eat dessert. You will still gave a dickie tum for that course too
Save the second excuse of losing weiggt for another time
Good luck chick

 

[~nix~]

Thanks marge....

Im considering calling sick and just sending al round with the kids

Nik

 

[angelupnorth]

Thanks marge....

Im considering calling sick and just sending al round with the kids

Nik

Do it the last thing you need is someone who makes you feel bad. any VLCD is hard enough without negativity from others.

I'm sure your OH would cover for you

 

[Mere]

Staying away might just be your best plan Nix but how will your hubby and kids react, will they not let the cat out of the bag and make the she devil even worse?
Mere x

 

[~nix~]

Ive not told him im not going yet.... >.<

 

[angelupnorth]

Ive not told him im not going yet.... >.<

Does he get the plan ? as in how coming in and out works ? Fingers crossed he's supportive, you never know he may not want to go either lol x

 

[~nix~]

Ooh hes very supportive.
He goes to the shops to grab me waters, asks if im on a food week. If id like some eggs...

Ive told him now im not going..
I just said to him whats the point of going to sit and watch them eat..but if he really wanted me to do that i would..

He said he understood, but was dissapointed because id have been the nominated driver and now he has to drive so he cant have a drink with his food.

But hes ok with it. I just told him to tell his mum im not feeling to good.

It just means that i can stick to plan 100% today...dont have to worry about extras..after my sts last week i want a nice loss, and its TOTM....
>.<... I know a big loss is going to be a struggle this week now.

But not going to monster in laws will help

Nik

Xx

 

[Mere]

Decision made always makes you feel good.
Mere x

 

[angelupnorth]

Yayyyyy he sound a like a great supportive partner.


I'm sure you will have a fab day