I think you are right, I do need to adapt my way of thinking and looking at myself. I still don't go shopping for clothes, I'm managing with what I have and a few things that were packed away that didn't fit me any more.
I don't get much support at home, my hubbie says yeah you've lost a bit, my son says urgh you don't look like 'mum' and my best friend just says I look like a bag of spuds tied up in the middle (because my clothes are all baggy) lol
I see my husbands eye start to roll if I talk about weight loss and/or syns
I'm just a bit down in the dumps I think, it will pass but thank you for your reply.
Tracy x