Ok here goes, my journey

Oh dear not a great evening, me & TDM have had words & he's gone out. Not sure if it's a bit of insecurity from me losing weight & getting attention elsewhere or something else :(
 
oh jo... dont let him get to you... men are fickle creatures
 
well you could but the patio would never be the same again ;)
 
I'm not spoiling my decking :)

Bloody men, he doesn't realise what a good catch he's got sometimes !.
 
none of them do .... mines came in and said hed been googling my symptoms as still having wee wee problems and said i have clamydia :rolleyes: bloody cheek of him
 
Jo you must be something right them, keep going. Mines gets the same when I lose weight, well he did when I was younger and would try and temp me to eat even though he wanted me to loose too, its change they dont handle it well. Well talking about chlamidia...earlier last year hubby was having problems with his testies.....mmmmm should I tell this story oh well I have started so Ill finish. We were sent to hospital we gound the department that the letter said to go to but him and me were puzzzled why they had sent us to the gum clinic as there was nothing wrong with his teeth....when we went it it all started to click, signs on the wall posters. and when the receptionist asked by what name he wanted to be called by I thought he was going to have a herat attack hahahahahahaha he then started talking very loudly saying I dont know why Im hear Ive just got a lump after a vasectomy...I say a vasectomy , well i was left in the waiting room with some very dodgy looking folk with enormous bags of meds in them....my nose was a little runny and there was a box of hankies on the table well......noway was I touching them incase the person befoe hadnt washed there hands hahahahaha, he came out all flusted looking and we got out of there pretty sharp....heheheheh he said while in there they did a test for chlymidia and he kept saying Ive been married for 30 years....chlymidia wasnt invented then lol, but he admitted he though if he did have it....and he'd been faithfull well.......that could have put the cat amongst the pigeons hahahaha some
 
just to add reading that back lol Ive have been a good girl too xxx Think I made it sound as if I d been naughty hahaha
 
He's gone out again this morning without saying a word so he is obviously in this for the long haul, I bloody hate it, much rather have a good old argument & then it's done & dusted nit left lingering for days. Looks like a great BH for me & it's his birthday & all the trouble I've gone to, too !

Ellie I thought clamydia had no symptoms which is why thousdands of women are walking round with it unknowingly ? Well that's what the nurse told me the last time I was tested for it. I don't think you have it, I think it's an infection myself but I'm not qualified.

Sid your story sounds familar, my friend went through a similar experience but hers turned out he'd got herpes !!!!!! She discovered she has them now too !!!!!! He is now long gone but unfortunatley she is left with the virus which there is no cure for so every so often she has a break out. How do you tell a new partner you have that ??????

I'm guessing as it's going to be a horrible weekend my food is going to go to pot, I get all angst & can't eat or go to the other extreme & comfort eat.

Men i tell ya !!!!!!
 
Sid your post also reminded me of an ex of mine, he used to put me down because I was fat. making me feel like i was really unattractive & lucky to have him. I went to weight watchers without saying anything ( I'm going back 20+ years here & i was a lot slimmer than I am now) I lost 2st, people kept commenting at work & friends noticed, he never said a blinkin word !!!! Anyway I started getting more & more attention & eventually finished with him. Years later we bumped into each other & he admitted he was scared of losing me which is why he treated me the way he did. The thing was i was besotted with him, would have married him & had his babies, Looking back now he probably did me a favour.
 
Well he's let me know he's in the pub watching the footie so I guess that's progress. I'm getting mardy now !!

Grrrrrr bloody men !
 
none of them do .... mines came in and said hed been googling my symptoms as still having wee wee problems and said i have clamydia :rolleyes: bloody cheek of him

What did he say when he eventually regained consciousness!!!!
 
Jo they are all the same!! me and the OH can go days without speaking, dont happen very often but we are as stubborn as each other, he usually gives in before me though!! Cx
 
funny thing..... hes had the runs all day :p
 
Jo years ago when the boys were small, hubby would pick an argument with me as an excuse to walk out......just so he could have a pint.hahahaha, well hears another story from our past ( by the way his testies and pain was scare tissue nothing serious) this night hubby bought me a bottle of wine it was unusual because I didnt drink often when the boys were younger, and it went down a treat.....so I drank the full bottle.....woke up the next morning with a bad head and comented to hubby I'd had no sleep with him tossing and turning all night. Hubbys brother was there and they started laughing when the stopped hubby admitted he had bought the wine to get me drunk then when I went to bed he met his mates at the pub ( IT WAS THE YEAR MIKE TYSON FOUGHT AT THREE IN THE MORNING) and they had just came in sooooo I'd been in the bed alone all night....I went ape and threw a jar of coffee at him...pig....I never spoke to him for ages, its funny now but iI could have divorces him back then.lol
 
I'm moving out, he didn't come home & is ignoring my calls/texts. Luckily I moved in with him & kept my flat going, we had talked about putting it on the market recently too.

Can't be doing with it, we aren't children for gods sake. If I move out maybe it'll give him time to think about what he is risking. NOBHEAD !!!!!

Don't even ask me about food, I've not been eating much.

I'm fine though just wish I was working the next couple of days but I guess I'll be busy unpacking.
 
Sorry to hear this Jo, he does seem to be behaving like a prat and you're worth more.

Stay strong

P x
 
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