Hi, i joined last september and have lost nearly 2st since. i joined due to fact my knees were bad and when we started trying and i got pregnant id need to have lost a load of weight. i told everyone that if i was pregnant i would continue to stay at sw till i had and rejoin straight after. i had several who were like 'dont do it, why bother?' i would just say because i want to and its a safe way to keep my weight gain as low as possible. and last i checked it was my body not yours.. lol! that worked with some people but others i had to have a bit more tact. (mother mainly - she was hating it when i was feeding my DD as she never did me she just wanted me to bottle feed-not very supportive as you can tell!)
i'm not following strictly but i'm not over eating.. ive started wanting more meat and potatoes so roasts are more on the table, cottage pies, etc but they are all sw recipes. i'm trying to keep my eating to a minimum but having everything i need, extra milk/cheese, breakfast and bread. and having my 10+ syns. dont be too strict but dont take the mick and hopefully your 'gain' (hate saying gain as its only a bump) wont be too bad. crossed fingers.

Take care and i hope you get some more support, not just from your hubby!