Re: cheating:
What is helping me not cheat is deciding on a planned 3 or 4 days off in April. There's no major reason for it, other than loving novelty easter goodies the shops all have in, and when i get there I might even decide to move it back to May when we traditionally go to the local country show and I might want something there. However, when I want a slice of pizza, or I'm in marks buying steak and crispy bacon and the pastries tempt me (I don't even like bready foods or pastries that much but the smell and look is what gets me, the experience of eating them a lot less so) I just tell myself that in April I can have what I want. If I want to go out and get a box of donuts, fine. If I want to have pizza one night and chips the next, okay. If it's just those 4 days and then I'm back on solidly until my birthday, at which point I hope to be close to goal, it won't hurt me, and in the meantime it stops me feeling like i MUST have that carby thing now or I will NEVER have it again. Of course I will. I really want a toasted sandwich from the college cafe, but I can have one next term, it's not an issue.
Of course pride comes before a fall and there are days and times when I stare at all the bad foods I want and get very very close to having it, and I'm not saying the wagon fall won't happen. But this has worked okay at stopping it so far. I'll just say aprilaprilapril over in my head.