Hi Debs
sorry to hear about your daughter's miscarriage, that is rotten for her. Still, she is lucky enough to have a lovely Mum to lean on and providing she takes her time to get over it, I am sure she will be fine. It's always so disappointing though, even at the early stage.
Good to see your 90/10 plan going so well. I really think you are onto something with this. It's finding what works for us as individuals, isn't it? Diets are not a one size fits all - come to that nor are T-shirts! They never seem to fit me, anyway! They will soon though!